Rutgers Womens Soccer

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And where does it say it was her dream?

Her goal (not dream) was to compete and play at a top program, with a realistic expectation it wouldn’t come easy.

I moved out of NJ years ago-when did you all get so dense?

OK. her goal (not dream) was to compete and play at a top program. Got it. Still working on the PLAY part though

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OK. her goal (not dream) was to compete and play at a top program. Got it. Still working on the PLAY part though

Yes. Said so at the beginning. Life’s hard sometimes and why would anyone denigrate someone for trying the hard vs taking the easy.

Is everyone in NJ so soft or is this an inaccurate representation of the state?

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So a Fetterman voter it is. Not shocking.

Strange how goal is a synonym for dream.

a cherished aspiration, ambition, or ideal:
"I fulfilled a childhood dream when I became champion" · "the girl of my dreams" · "they'd found their dream home"
SIMILAR:
ambition
aspiration
hope
goal
design
plan
aim
object
objective
grail
holy grail
target
intention
intent
desire

Completely blew that one. Far from a Fetterdude voter. I think that glass house your in is actually just a mirror.

Take the easy ride. Others will take the more difficult and satisfying approach. I’m quite sure who will be better served in the working world.

Takes all kinds.

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Yes. Said so at the beginning. Life’s hard sometimes and why would anyone denigrate someone for trying the hard vs taking the easy.

Is everyone in NJ so soft or is this an inaccurate representation of the state?

You sure have to do alot of defending for your self righteous stance on how a kid should choose their college. Your kids choice is Bench at a name brand school. We all get it. She is like Rudy. cool

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Yes. Said so at the beginning. Life’s hard sometimes and why would anyone denigrate someone for trying the hard vs taking the easy.

Is everyone in NJ so soft or is this an inaccurate representation of the state?

So, you are saying the girls that went for less demanding soccer programs are not working hard. Maybe they are working hard on their academics, taking an engineering, chemistry or pre-med major instead of communication. Some of them have their priorities straighten up before putting their foot on a college campus.

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Someone claimed the better PDA players go elsewhere than RU, please name the former PDA players on other NCAA P5 teams having success and playing right now, because I don't know any?

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You sure have to do alot of defending for your self righteous stance on how a kid should choose their college. Your kids choice is Bench at a name brand school. We all get it. She is like Rudy. cool

How did she choose the bench? Her choice was to compete and play at the highest levels, to test herself. The result, as a first year, was limited minutes.

Money’s still green

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Someone claimed the better PDA players go elsewhere than RU, please name the former PDA players on other NCAA P5 teams having success and playing right now, because I don't know any?

Look at UNC with MR. Clemson JT. Maryland LW and KC....just naming a few as I know there are many others but happen to know these girls

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So, you are saying the girls that went for less demanding soccer programs are not working hard. Maybe they are working hard on their academics, taking an engineering, chemistry or pre-med major instead of communication. Some of them have their priorities straighten up before putting their foot on a college campus.

Or, maybe, my kid is doing all that as well in her double-major.

I never said anyone else’s kids weren’t working hard. I’m quite sure they are working as hard as they can. I’m just saying it would’ve been easier for mine had she gone that route. She was never one to take the easier path.

There’s a certain amount of satisfaction doing the difficult than the easy. For most people anyway

The obsession over this is funny

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How did she choose the bench? Her choice was to compete and play at the highest levels, to test herself. The result, as a first year, was limited minutes.

Money’s still green

Oh now she got money at the highest level too? You starting to convince me now. Bench is where its at!

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Or, maybe, my kid is doing all that as well in her double-major.

I never said anyone else’s kids weren’t working hard. I’m quite sure they are working as hard as they can. I’m just saying it would’ve been easier for mine had she gone that route. She was never one to take the easier path.

There’s a certain amount of satisfaction doing the difficult than the easy. For most people anyway

The obsession over this is funny

Your defending yourself on TS is even funnier

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Truth is everyone's path is different. Kids need to choose a school thats fits them. So many different ways to go and reasons to choose your destination. Some will choose a school because they will play, some will choose a school based on how much money they get. Some will choose a school based on the football team....At the end of the day its the kids decision and hopefully they are happy with that choice. What other people do should not matter in your kid's plan

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Oh now she got money at the highest level too? You starting to convince me now. Bench is where its at!

Yes. If you’ve actually been through this you’d understand how it works and yes, there is money to be had. Since not expected much early, but more later, it goes up. Common really, especially when added to Academics. Which is what we discuss: they wouldn’t offer you so much without some expectations.

Could've got much more elsewhere but already stated how she felt about that.

Keep on it, just digging your hole deeper

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Your defending yourself on TS is even funnier

Attacking anonymous people on TS is the funniest

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Yes. If you’ve actually been through this you’d understand how it works and yes, there is money to be had. Since not expected much early, but more later, it goes up. Common really, especially when added to Academics. Which is what we discuss: they wouldn’t offer you so much without some expectations.

Could've got much more elsewhere but already stated how she felt about that.

Keep on it, just digging your hole deeper

LOL. digging what deeper? I really don't care what your kid does or how she doesn't play or how she dreamed of the bench....Its fun watching you get fished all day. You really have no idea do you? And just for the record my kid does play and she did get lots of money but I dont have to keep telling people that on TS