Originally posted by Unregistered
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I've been playing the beautiful game for over 30 years and before retiring 8 years ago, I had the privilege to coach youth players in So Cal and Oregon. I've seen just about every kid of behavior. Coaches are definitely not exempt from an 'ego thing.'
If your child has been on an 'on-age' team such as ODP, then you likely have a better understanding of how this new requirement will work. If you have a child playing up on a mixed age group, then you've already experienced what to expect next year. If you had a child begin their classic/premier play in the mid-late 90s, then you know that U11 teams had to compete against other U11 AND U12 teams, in first, the Classic Qualifier Tournament and if your team survived it, advancement to the Premier Qualifier Tournament. How U11 teams did determined if they would play U12 Classic 1,2, 3 or U12 Premier leagues. Being a U11 team in a U12 Premier league was sometimes brutal, but between training and league, many of teams developed well enough to be accepted into out-of-state tournaments.
These kids are adults now, and some of them are back home coaching. Some also change schools, quit soccer, or even moved on to professional play. If kids go on to college or careers and demonstrate character, class, and reflections of positive youth soccer, then credit the players and what they learned in growing up. This banter about not developing enough to make into DI programs, especially on the girls' side is b.s. There are kids invited to play DI but opt to attend DII, DIII, NAIA, and even two-year schools. Academics, a life outside of soccer, and other interests is also part of the college experience.
Coaches and families in this forum who keep using sarcasm and insults keep drawing away from where discussions should be directed-Yes. Families of the youngest players and those heading off to high school are likely scared and upset about change. Change is part of a child's learning and their ability to adapt is a process of development. Please acknowledge that an adult's fear is a genuine concern because he/she wants to protect their child. Let the child learn and really listen if he/she chooses to explore other things in life.
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