Bayside United

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ok, sorry, I thought you were saying that the kids deserved to leave and that their stories were the same because they weren't the kids that played. You were there? Are you a former BSU parent?

Let's just say I heard it all and saw it all. I'm aware of all the issues this particular team has gone through. I'm aware of why all the 7 kids left the program, and where they are currently playing at. I have spoken to several parents that have left, and they all have the same story about this program. Amazing, and I thought I was seeing things when I was there. We left because the behavior of this particular individual was wrong. Yes they are a 5-0 team, but its the same as the winter season, it's just the weather got warmer. This stuffed can't be made up; how do you explain 7 kids leaving the team, and three of them started. Regardless of whether you kid was starting or playing the bench a coach should never behave in the manner that I observed. As far as the parents that stayed_________________supporting such acts.....

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Let's just say I heard it all and saw it all. I'm aware of all the issues this particular team has gone through. I'm aware of why all the 7 kids left the program, and where they are currently playing at. I have spoken to several parents that have left, and they all have the same story about this program. Amazing, and I thought I was seeing things when I was there. We left because the behavior of this particular individual was wrong. Yes they are a 5-0 team, but its the same as the winter season, it's just the weather got warmer. This stuffed can't be made up; how do you explain 7 kids leaving the team, and three of them started. Regardless of whether you kid was starting or playing the bench a coach should never behave in the manner that I observed. As far as the parents that stayed_________________supporting such acts.....

I agree. Too bad for those kids and the parenst that would put up with such behavior.

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Exactly the point offense players who lose the ball, cannot win it and cannot help to get it back. Every player is a defender when your team does not have the ball. Kids who sit the bench on this team and all premier teams sit most for this reason and lack of premier play speed reason. Parents feel insulted when faced with this and then after moving around to a bunch of teams they see original coach had it correct.[/QUO

Lol......so funny.

I think he just came clean....You knew this in the Fall of 2011 its now Spring 2012. Don't you think you should have said something to the parents along time ago, and not take their checks for the winter and spring session? The parents finally woke up and now you have this mass exodus to deal with. Wasn't right at all, especially when the economy is bad and some of these kids come from a single parent family..

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I agree. Too bad for those kids and the parenst that would put up with such behavior.

Problem is none of your kids measured up to RS so you all ran off.

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Problem is none of your kids measured up to RS so you all ran off.

Shouldn't put a 11 YO kids intials on TA, we all know who your talking about....

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Problem is none of your kids measured up to RS so you all ran off.

What an idiot why would you even think of put a kid out there like that on TS??? She's a good kid and name does not belong in this forum....I hope a BSU parent did not do this....Should be ashamed of yourself...

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Parents who do not yet understand premier soccer coming here everyday to defame a man's club, character and team should be ashamed of yourselves. Your kids did not get the playing time you thought they deserved well welcome to premier soccer. That is premier soccer and every year on it gets more and more that way.

You subject your kids to this type of play so stop complaining. Find or you found a club where your kids are getting playing time now so be happy and move on. Clubs and coaches are free to play kids as they wish. Keep complaining and you will get labeled and your kid won't get picked in the future at any club once that happens. Accept some of the responsibility for putting your kids in a situation they were not prepared for.

You are in for a rough ride until you learn what premier soccer means. Soccer schools and clinics are a better choice for kids this age who are not yet ready for the rigors of play and coaching in premier.

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Parents getting a rude awakening to premier what a surprise and shock they will learn.

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[QUOTE=Unregistered;754737]Parents who do not yet understand premier soccer coming here everyday to defame a man's club, character and team should be ashamed of yourselves. Your kids did not get the playing time you thought they deserved well welcome to premier soccer. That is premier soccer and every year on it gets more and more that way.

You subject your kids to this type of play so stop complaining. Find or you found a club where your kids are getting playing time now so be happy and move on. Clubs and coaches are free to play kids as they wish. Keep complaining and you will get labeled and your kid won't get picked in the future at any club once that happens. Accept some of the responsibility for putting your kids in a situation they were not prepared for.
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You are in for a rough ride until you learn what premier soccer means. Soccer schools and clinics are a better choice for kids this age who are not yet ready for the rigors of play and coaching in premier.[/QUOT

Uuummmm! So what does premiere soccer mean then? Please elaborate??? Confused by this post. Why would a coach put seven kids on a team and then tell them there not premiere ready? Is it because he needed enough players to field a team or because of the money? Is this program for profit or not for profit? Is this program interested in training individuals or team concept? My kids don't play for this program but a llittle concerned on what I just read.....

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So you defend a coach by threatening parents that if they complain that you'll call there present club and get their kid black balled?......Yeah, should remove this post makes the club look real bad. What parent wants to join a club if they fear speaking out. You did more damage to the club with this post then the parents did speaking about it......Good Job!!!. You should be ashamed of your self for posting this.....Furthermore, if your not willing to play kids, and your going to yell and demean them get ready to here the complaints from the parents. ISN'T THIS IS PART OF PREMIERE SOCCER ALSO. Not everyone who complains in this forum had a kid playing for your coach...

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"......Is it because he needed enough players to field a team or because of the money? Is this program for profit or not for profit? Is this program interested in training individuals or team concept?....."

Wake up and smell the coffee people! Premier soccer is a business, for profit, period. Win games and tournaments, and people come running to sign up. Yes they talk development and then they will blow smoke up 'you know where', tell you your kid is the best, and take your check until they see the liablity of losing games, then some little superstars ride the bench! And no...I am not a coach, just a soccer parent who has been there and seen it happen for years. They are all businesses, so get used to it. Just make sure your kid is still having fun and tell the obnoxious parents to stop ruining it for the kids with all this nonsense

signed, a jaded soccer parent

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If it's any comfort those kids who play the entire game will eventually leave them for greener pastures and what goes around comes around as they say.

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If it's any comfort those kids who play the entire game will eventually leave them for greener pastures and what goes around comes around as they say.

I agree. And with the right training the kids that were looked down upon can sometimes shine. My kid was on a [premier team a few years ago and I didn't like the coaching so I went somewhere else. It has been two years now and this team has brought out the best in her and she is doing great. Had I stayed with that other team, she would have gotten lost and wouldn't have learned much.

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"......Is it because he needed enough players to field a team or because of the money? Is this program for profit or not for profit? Is this program interested in training individuals or team concept?....."

Wake up and smell the coffee people! Premier soccer is a business, for profit, period. Win games and tournaments, and people come running to sign up. Yes they talk development and then they will blow smoke up 'you know where', tell you your kid is the best, and take your check until they see the liablity of losing games, then some little superstars ride the bench! And no...I am not a coach, just a soccer parent who has been there and seen it happen for years. They are all businesses, so get used to it. Just make sure your kid is still having fun and tell the obnoxious parents to stop ruining it for the kids with all this nonsense

signed, a jaded soccer parent

Lol.....you said it perfectly!!!! The only thing is that coach needs to understand the same....

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I agree. And with the right training the kids that were looked down upon can sometimes shine. My kid was on a [premier team a few years ago and I didn't like the coaching so I went somewhere else. It has been two years now and this team has brought out the best in her and she is doing great. Had I stayed with that other team, she would have gotten lost and wouldn't have learned much.

Great post and good advice for people new to premier.