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Originally posted by Unregistered View PostOr they are toolbags. Anyone yelling into a bag; like an anonymous post, needs to grow a pair.
Btw - what are you doing? Are you taking courses to get licensed? Are you getting up to speed on your soccer acumen? I've been a coach and it is very easy to throw darts when you have no arm strength. And I coached my kid too (also would bench my kid if I had to), but not everyone can do it. It's a thankless job sometimes when you have ungrateful people.
Luckily most appreciated what I was doing for their kid. You can't make a kid magically athletic when they just aren't. You cant fine tune things, but once they max out...they just do. And no amount of coaching is going to fix it.
Parents need to accept ceilings and not push their kids to the point where the kids either become a cancer on the team (like the parents), or the kid that starts to get frustrated and quit the game they love because their parents are douche bags.
I have seen it happen many times. This is where you are headed pal. Get off the internet and go into the backyard with your kid and hit a ball with her; stand in the net and let her learn to shoot around you. Go to an NWSL game with her. Let her learn it and love it. Let her have fun! If you take that away, you will take away other things she loves too.
She is only young a short time. Don't waste it on your hurt feelings. You can't get it back.
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Originally posted by unregistered View Postok, ok. You are one of them. I didn’t realize. I’m telling you that this thread is a con and run by the bucks parents because i thought you were new to this. And here i am talking to one of you live and in the flesh. Guess you can say i was conned. I do want to know honestly why all of you have taken so much energy and time to make up scam threads. Your 2006 girls fc bucks ecnl thread really went out of hand. It didn’t need to. But trying to bring down others only exposes you more. Some of us trolls are college educated and beyond. I, for one, see the game you are all playing. Most do. Sorry. I’ve got brains on my side.
Now tell us, are you having whoopie with the dad or the other coach?
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Originally posted by Unregistered View PostOr they are toolbags. Anyone yelling into a bag; like an anonymous post, needs to grow a pair.
Btw - what are you doing? Are you taking courses to get licensed? Are you getting up to speed on your soccer acumen? I've been a coach and it is very easy to throw darts when you have no arm strength. And I coached my kid too (also would bench my kid if I had to), but not everyone can do it. It's a thankless job sometimes when you have ungrateful people.
Luckily most appreciated what I was doing for their kid. You can't make a kid magically athletic when they just aren't. You cant fine tune things, but once they max out...they just do. And no amount of coaching is going to fix it.
Parents need to accept ceilings and not push their kids to the point where the kids either become a cancer on the team (like the parents), or the kid that starts to get frustrated and quit the game they love because their parents are douche bags.
I have seen it happen many times. This is where you are headed pal. Get off the internet and go into the backyard with your kid and hit a ball with her; stand in the net and let her learn to shoot around you. Go to an NWSL game with her. Let her learn it and love it. Let her have fun! If you take that away, you will take away other things she loves too.
She is only young a short time. Don't waste it on your hurt feelings. You can't get it back.
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Originally posted by Unregistered View PostOr they are toolbags. Anyone yelling into a bag; like an anonymous post, needs to grow a pair.
Btw - what are you doing? Are you taking courses to get licensed? Are you getting up to speed on your soccer acumen? I've been a coach and it is very easy to throw darts when you have no arm strength. And I coached my kid too (also would bench my kid if I had to), but not everyone can do it. It's a thankless job sometimes when you have ungrateful people.
Luckily most appreciated what I was doing for their kid. You can't make a kid magically athletic when they just aren't. You cant fine tune things, but once they max out...they just do. And no amount of coaching is going to fix it.
Parents need to accept ceilings and not push their kids to the point where the kids either become a cancer on the team (like the parents), or the kid that starts to get frustrated and quit the game they love because their parents are douche bags.
I have seen it happen many times. This is where you are headed pal. Get off the internet and go into the backyard with your kid and hit a ball with her; stand in the net and let her learn to shoot around you. Go to an NWSL game with her. Let her learn it and love it. Let her have fun! If you take that away, you will take away other things she loves too.
She is only young a short time. Don't waste it on your hurt feelings. You can't get it back.
Yelling into a bag. Love that. So damn true. Anyone posting on here is exactly doing that. beautifully written. All around.
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There’s a few really messed up parents on there that are mad that their dad coach and coach Rich Finneyfrock got dragged through the mud. They started this thread along with a bunch of others to deflect from their thread.
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Originally posted by Unregistered View PostThis is a great post.
Yelling into a bag. Love that. So damn true. Anyone posting on here is exactly doing that. beautifully written. All around.
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[QUOTE=Unregistered;2567237]Or they are toolbags. Anyone yelling into a bag; like an anonymous post, needs to grow a pair.
Btw - what are you doing? Are you taking courses to get licensed? Are you getting up to speed on your soccer acumen? I've been a coach and it is very easy to throw darts when you have no arm strength. And I coached my kid too (also would bench my kid if I had to), but not everyone can do it. It's a thankless job sometimes when you have ungrateful people.
Luckily most appreciated what I was doing for their kid. You can't make a kid magically athletic when they just aren't. You cant fine tune things, but once they max out...they just do. And no amount of coaching is going to fix it.
Parents need to accept ceilings and not push their kids to the point where the kids either become a cancer on the team (like the parents), or the kid that starts to get frustrated and quit the game they love because their parents are douche bags.
I have seen it happen many times. This is where you are headed pal. Get off the internet and go into the backyard with your kid and hit a ball with her; stand in the net and let her learn to shoot around you. Go to an NWSL game with her. Let her learn it and love it. Let her have fun! If you take that away, you will take away other things she loves too.
She is only young a short time. Don't waste it on your hurt feelings. You can't get it back.[/QUOTE
You have some interesting points.
Here are mine.
There should be no parent coaches for a high level soccer team. Once people are writing checks for professional coaching that is what they expect a professional coach not a parent. So they may seem ungrateful or throw darts because a parent coach is not what they signed up for. At an intramural level or low level travel soccer a parent coach is what you expect.
When you are spending 7K a year on soccer you don’t want or expect a parent to be coaching your kid.
And maybe the parents are afraid their kid will become frustrated and quit soccer due to the favoritism shown to the coaches kid - did you ever think of that? It’s not easy being on a team when the nucleus of that team is the coaches daughter. It’s very frustrating to a kid when everyone’s positions and playing time revolve around what is best for the coaches kid and not what is the best for the team.
The rest of your comments are thought provoking.
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There should be no parent coaches for a high level soccer team. Once people are writing checks for professional coaching that is what they expect a professional coach not a parent. So they may seem ungrateful or throw darts because a parent coach is not what they signed up for. At an intramural level or low level travel soccer a parent coach is what you expect.
When you are spending 7K a year on soccer you don’t want or expect a parent to be coaching your kid.
And maybe the parents are afraid their kid will become frustrated and quit soccer due to the favoritism shown to the coaches kid - did you ever think of that? It’s not easy being on a team when the nucleus of that team is the coaches daughter. It’s very frustrating to a kid when everyone’s positions and playing time revolve around what is best for the coaches kid and not what is the best for the team.
The rest of your comments are thought provoking.[/QUOTE]
This is an excellent post but belongs on the FCB thread as it's relevant to that team not the Ukies
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Originally posted by Unregistered View PostThere should be no parent coaches for a high level soccer team. Once people are writing checks for professional coaching that is what they expect a professional coach not a parent. So they may seem ungrateful or throw darts because a parent coach is not what they signed up for. At an intramural level or low level travel soccer a parent coach is what you expect.
When you are spending 7K a year on soccer you don’t want or expect a parent to be coaching your kid.
And maybe the parents are afraid their kid will become frustrated and quit soccer due to the favoritism shown to the coaches kid - did you ever think of that? It’s not easy being on a team when the nucleus of that team is the coaches daughter. It’s very frustrating to a kid when everyone’s positions and playing time revolve around what is best for the coaches kid and not what is the best for the team.
The rest of your comments are thought provoking.
You are right it does belong on the bucks thread as that is the situation over there. The Ukies parent coach had the class to step away and let her daughter make her own way. Kudos to her!
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Originally posted by Unregistered View PostThere’s a few really messed up parents on there that are mad that their dad coach and coach Rich Finneyfrock got dragged through the mud. They started this thread along with a bunch of others to deflect from their thread.
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