The worst part is how easily it could be affordable and with very little drop in quality. Do we all need fly away showcases for u13-14? Multiple trips to MA, PA, etc for league games? Four tournaments per year with 2-3 night hotel stays? Even just a reduction, not eliminating all of it, would be thousands of dollars of fees saved. GA or Ecnl being separate and marketing showcases and national playoffs to middle school kids is just silly.
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Originally posted by Unregistered View PostHarsh delivery but the statements accurate. It is what it is and parents cant havr it both ways. You cant gloat about how your kid plays for the best team at the biggest club in the highest league and then also complain about the dogfight for PT.
Anyway, most coaches can manage larger rosters to make sure everyone gets ok pt - if they want to. Too many coaches and clubs prefer to prioritize wins.
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Originally posted by Unregistered View PostThe worst part is how easily it could be affordable and with very little drop in quality. Do we all need fly away showcases for u13-14? Multiple trips to MA, PA, etc for league games? Four tournaments per year with 2-3 night hotel stays? Even just a reduction, not eliminating all of it, would be thousands of dollars of fees saved. GA or Ecnl being separate and marketing showcases and national playoffs to middle school kids is just silly.
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Originally posted by Unregistered View PostThese parents most certainly can and it is obvious why.These are some of the best teams in some but it is all funded by a small pool of affluent pay to play parents and that is by the design of the industry. IF you are going to market your product to pushy affluent parents then your customers are going to be pushy affluent parents.
If you want to run youth soccer based on merit and talent - you cant be charging sky high prices with stupid travel expenses. The industry is the one that can't have it both ways.
We can all relate this to our professional lives. being a helicopter parent, arguing with the coaches, ect. is not helping kids be better people in the long run...they will only turn out to be doushbags/@ssholes like their parents....yea, we are probably talking about you and your pathetic wetnursed kid.
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Originally posted by Unregistered View PostWrong Wrong Wrong the parents need to change....Parents need to help and show the children that hard work pays off (soccer is just a vehicle for what life has to offer) if you lack talent, you must work harder for your spot. If you have talent, you must work harder or someone else will take your spot.
We can all relate this to our professional lives. being a helicopter parent, arguing with the coaches, ect. is not helping kids be better people in the long run...they will only turn out to be doushbags/@ssholes like their parents....yea, we are probably talking about you and your pathetic wetnursed kid.
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Originally posted by Unregistered View PostThe worst part is how easily it could be affordable and with very little drop in quality. Do we all need fly away showcases for u13-14? Multiple trips to MA, PA, etc for league games? Four tournaments per year with 2-3 night hotel stays? Even just a reduction, not eliminating all of it, would be thousands of dollars of fees saved. GA or Ecnl being separate and marketing showcases and national playoffs to middle school kids is just silly.
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Originally posted by Unregistered View PostThe worst part is how easily it could be affordable and with very little drop in quality. Do we all need fly away showcases for u13-14? Multiple trips to MA, PA, etc for league games? Four tournaments per year with 2-3 night hotel stays? Even just a reduction, not eliminating all of it, would be thousands of dollars of fees saved. GA or Ecnl being separate and marketing showcases and national playoffs to middle school kids is just silly.
this is for families with money..period.
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Originally posted by Unregistered View PostThe worst part is how easily it could be affordable and with very little drop in quality. Do we all need fly away showcases for u13-14? Multiple trips to MA, PA, etc for league games? Four tournaments per year with 2-3 night hotel stays? Even just a reduction, not eliminating all of it, would be thousands of dollars of fees saved. GA or Ecnl being separate and marketing showcases and national playoffs to middle school kids is just silly.
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Originally posted by Unregistered View PostTerrible analogy unless you are paying to go to work instead of being paid. In that case, here is a tip...get a new job.
If your not happy with your team, get a new one.
You are obviously a doushbag liberal, thinks the 99% of the people have to change for the 1%. you think you are entitle to sh-t, but you are not, you want something? stop your crying, your b-tching and your complaining, go EARN IT like a real man!!!
The harder the climb, the sweeter the fruit.
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Originally posted by Unregistered View PostIt makes sense if you look at it for what it is- a business. THey want to get down to the families that can afford this asap and then they have a great affluent customer base to suck out as many dollars as possible. Thede "high level travel teams are for families with the money to pay or else you are setting yourself up for too much stress.
this is for families with money..period.
All you P-ssy parents (you know who you are) you signed up for competitive soccer so it is what it is, take your money, your crying, your b-tching, and your moaning and shove it up your @ss.
If your kid is on the A team, that is great, The kid has to work his @ss off because everyone of the B team kids is working hard to take his Spot.
The C team kids have nothing to lose and are really just there to scare the sh-t out of the B team kids.
This is just like life when you compare upper class, middle class and lower class in any society. Parents if you are smart you can use soccer as a metaphor for life, and not to be taken seriously especially for youth soccer.
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Originally posted by Unregistered View PostNo one is forcing you to join a club that travels at that early age. Parents should know going in what the schedule will be for the following season including tournaments before you sign up. Then there are no surprises. Instead, they join either having no idea or not smart enough to ask then complain after the fact. It doesn’t work that way. Clubs will not change their schedules or tournaments for parents. If you do not agree then you should find a club that works for you.
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Originally posted by Unregistered View Postthe families with money can help get the kid in the front door, but the kid still has to perform. If he does not, the family will fund the kid who takes the spot.
All you P-ssy parents (you know who you are) you signed up for competitive soccer so it is what it is, take your money, your crying, your b-tching, and your moaning and shove it up your @ss.
If your kid is on the A team, that is great, The kid has to work his @ss off because everyone of the B team kids is working hard to take his Spot.
The C team kids have nothing to lose and are really just there to scare the sh-t out of the B team kids.
This is just like life when you compare upper class, middle class and lower class in any society. Parents if you are smart you can use soccer as a metaphor for life, and not to be taken seriously especially for youth soccer.
Only exception are funded teams for some boys that get mls money.
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Originally posted by Unregistered View PostHaving been around it does seem now like almost every club forces unnecessary travel on the kids, including NPL, EDP, etc. The GAs and ECNLs just do more of it and further. But that point does stand that from a strictly soccer pov, you could cut the travel down by half at least and have no discernable drop off in quality. Obviously, from the business side it makes sense as another pointed out because you are filtering people into the system earlier which makes them more committed and less likely to leave and normalizes the amount they are spending since everyone else is doing it, too.
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Originally posted by Unregistered View PostWe will continue to disagree. The schedule by the club is the model for the club regarding travel and tournaments. If your daughter is offered a spot on a roster it’s the parents responsibility to ask about the upcoming season and say yes or go to another club. Clubs deeming what’s heir soccer agenda not parents. No one from a club ever “forced” unnecessary travel to games. That is why my daughter joined an ECNL Cub which is to play other like mined competitive teams n the Region. The travel questions should e asked before you join. Complaining after the fact is on you.
So commenting on it is entirely appropriate for a soccer forum and is a more interesting discussion than the usual "your player sucks your team sucks" Your club sucks"
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