Lack of respect for coaches

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Male coach supposedly a role model yelling at young girls calling them losers and saying they suck is not a healthy way to establish any coach/player relationship . Sorry my parenting style is being supportive and nurturing, soccer is not worth my child developing future issues because she was subjected to an abusive adult .

If she plans to play in HS or college she better grow a thicker skin. There's plenty if very tough coaches out there. Trump verbal abuse is not ok.. We were at one club briefly where a coach, among many things, was screaming the girls werr fat which is really helpful with girls right? But had he simply screamed they were too slow, its a different message yes?

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Male coach supposedly a role model yelling at young girls calling them losers and saying they suck is not a healthy way to establish any coach/player relationship . Sorry my parenting style is being supportive and nurturing, soccer is not worth my child developing future issues because she was subjected to an abusive adult .

This is terrible what club???

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This is terrible what club???

Cedar Stars

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It’s amazing the lack of thanks and respect for the coaches that put in so much time, effort, thought into each and every session and game. The players and families just take it fir granted thinking that just because they pay lots of money their behaviour is quite justified. They club hop leaving one academy in the dust for another, zero loyalty, zero thanks, zero appreciation. Go thank a coach today for all they do for you, too many unappreciative families out there. These people have done a lot even through a pandemic.

I'll feel bad for you when you start coaching for free. Let's face it you are complaining about your better players leaving for a different team. If a kid is good and competitive they will out grow a mediocre team and they have every right to find a good fit. Accept your place in the food chain and you'll be a happy camper or offer something they can't get somewhere else.

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If she plans to play in HS or college she better grow a thicker skin. There's plenty if very tough coaches out there. Trump verbal abuse is not ok.. We were at one club briefly where a coach, among many things, was screaming the girls werr fat which is really helpful with girls right? But had he simply screamed they were too slow, its a different message yes?

Sorry I have to disagree with you these people should not be allowed around kids period. I'm a guy and I played in highschool and college and had may different coaches, yelling is one thing but humiliation should never be acceptable. And this not a coaching style it's a lack of discipline and decency.

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Respect is a 2-way street. It's ok to be a tough coach and demand the best from their players. Abusing young and teenage girls not acceptable. I don't care if a coach yells at the whole team, but if they're pointing out individual mistakes that's fine as long as it's not personal.

I've experienced enough dirty underhanded tactics and favoritism to be very very cautious of most coaches.

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Cedar Stars

That’s why we left that dump . Toxic environment

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If she plans to play in HS or college she better grow a thicker skin. There's plenty if very tough coaches out there. Trump verbal abuse is not ok.. We were at one club briefly where a coach, among many things, was screaming the girls werr fat which is really helpful with girls right? But had he simply screamed they were too slow, its a different message yes?

Awful advice, not appropriate behaviour regardless of coach or academy. Too many coaches act out like this and are not held accountable.

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Respect is a 2-way street. It's ok to be a tough coach and demand the best from their players. Abusing young and teenage girls not acceptable. I don't care if a coach yells at the whole team, but if they're pointing out individual mistakes that's fine as long as it's not personal.

I've experienced enough dirty underhanded tactics and favoritism to be very very cautious of most coaches.

I’ve heard coaches curse at young girls U11/U12, these maniacs have no boundaries or self respect.

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If she plans to play in HS or college she better grow a thicker skin. There's plenty if very tough coaches out there. Trump verbal abuse is not ok.. We were at one club briefly where a coach, among many things, was screaming the girls werr fat which is really helpful with girls right? But had he simply screamed they were too slow, its a different message yes?

Sounds like an advice from an investment Bank's HR when a female worker files a complaint about the sex jokes made by male colleagues on the trading floor ...

Now consider that female worker as your daughter ...

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Sounds like an advice from an investment Bank's HR when a female worker files a complaint about the sex jokes made by male colleagues on the trading floor ...

Now consider that female worker as your daughter ...

Good point. Substance abuse also plays a part with these coaches and their verbal abuse.

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I’ve heard coaches curse at young girls U11/U12, these maniacs have no boundaries or self respect.

Disgusting, which club you referring to?

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Disgusting, which club you referring to?

The most recent tournament we went. The opponent team's coach was yelling "ARE YOU KIDDING ME?" at ...


His own players when they (may be) make mistakes.

Our parents were stunned and couldn't get how the opponent team's parents could tolerate that ...

To finish the story, the guy got a yellow card from the ref when later on he yelled at the ref and said, "I HAVE BEEN A REF BEFORE YOU KNOW."

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The most recent tournament we went. The opponent team's coach was yelling "ARE YOU KIDDING ME?" at ...


His own players when they (may be) make mistakes.

Our parents were stunned and couldn't get how the opponent team's parents could tolerate that ...

To finish the story, the guy got a yellow card from the ref when later on he yelled at the ref and said, "I HAVE BEEN A REF BEFORE YOU KNOW."

Which club and coach??? Are you making this crap up?

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The most recent tournament we went. The opponent team's coach was yelling "ARE YOU KIDDING ME?" at ...


His own players when they (may be) make mistakes.

Our parents were stunned and couldn't get how the opponent team's parents could tolerate that ...

To finish the story, the guy got a yellow card from the ref when later on he yelled at the ref and said, "I HAVE BEEN A REF BEFORE YOU KNOW."

Stop making up crap, unless you actually back it up this is all bs.