Ryan Tetro

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I understand that most the people reading this, have little to no real soccer experience, other then watching a few 12 year olds play, so here’s a little info on the video. I’ve watched it a few times now. MF player got to the ball first, and you can tell by the direction the ball travels when she clears it. Second, the PDA player knew she was not going to get there in time and throws her left leg in front of the MF player. (Nick I know you’re reading, please teach if she leads with left leg, which she should not do, she either needs to twist away or cover her face, cause that will happen every time). PDA player is clearly out of control and late, two reasons for a yellow if not red.
That being said, was a tough physical game, congratulations to PDA on the win.

Ok, so simple question. Did he say that or not?

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Is was there. Not taping the event spectating. I am not a parent of MatchFit nor PDA. STOP. These are not accusations. It happened as stated. You were not at the game so stop with claiming this is an accusations. Everyone on both sidelines and in attendance knows what happened.

I believe you. We have a real issue with the ECNL coaches in NJ.

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Is was there. Not taping the event spectating. I am not a parent of MatchFit nor PDA. STOP. These are not accusations. It happened as stated. You were not at the game so stop with claiming this is an accusations. Everyone on both sidelines and in attendance knows what happened.

So you have a video BUT won’t share it?? Just because you say YOU saw it does not make it true! So either put up or shut up!

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I believe you. We have a real issue with the ECNL coaches in NJ.

Not just ECNL coaches! There is a real issue with soccer coaches across all leagues.

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So you have a video BUT won’t share it?? Just because you say YOU saw it does not make it true! So either put up or shut up!

He said he saw it in person. Not videoing it, just as a spectator. Apparently everyone on the sidelines saw and heard it too. I don’t doubt it happened.

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So you have a video BUT won’t share it?? Just because you say YOU saw it does not make it true! So either put up or shut up!

Oh hey Ryan Tetro, glad to see your on the forum you loser. What's the matter, bar to crowded? I saw the video, not going to post a link because it would bring you to a presons fb page and I'm not giving their info out without thier permission. The video will get to the right people. Hopefully something will come from it and you get what you deserve.

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PDA coach and RT got into it after RT told a player to take out another. I don’t know the exact words but the ref had to stop the game because the coaches were getting into it.

Regardless of what was said or how it was said, no coach should be telling a player to hit another player on the opposing team. That is not the same as say “play physical”.

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PDA coach and RT got into it after RT told a player to take out another. I don’t know the exact words but the ref had to stop the game because the coaches were getting into it.

Regardless of what was said or how it was said, no coach should be telling a player to hit another player on the opposing team. That is not the same as say “play physical”.

Totally agree but note PDA coaches have done the same thing and so have many others. Not supporting this disgusting behavior. It’s time to advocate for change and that comes from parents not willing to put kids around these type of people because they think it makes their kid better or stronger. So many parents have told me- my kid can handle it, she strives in that environment, she’s different, etc. Research proves time and time again it does the complete opposite- even if you think your kid is fine and appears okay - chances are it will come out in other ways later on.

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Tetro is a drunken loser and all of the parents on this team that condone his behavior in front of their young girls should have their kids taken away from them. This guy is not a role model, and to call him a real coach is like calling Doogie Houser a real doctor. It's a shame that the parents overlook his drunken behavior only because they win stupid local tournaments. Shame on Tetro, MF Shore and the parents that put their kids in situations with this clown. Then again, how can they post on fb and Instagram with a million hashtags if they aren't winning at the Marlboro classic.

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RT curses at opposing coaches, tells his players at half time they are no good and PDA is better, then tells his players to take out the PDA girls in a last ditch effort, securing a 0-3 loss in the Championship game (all recorded on my cell phone). Forgoes the opportunity to reward his players with a second place championship finish and tells them all to go home. The Shore claims to being #1 in GOTSOCCER, #1 in YOUTH SOCCER, cherry picking tournaments based on who enters them and playing less competitive teams over the past year to earn this ranking. Now that MatchFit Shore is in the ECNL league, they will struggle with a coach who has no legitimate coaching experience, no professional playing experience and clearly unraveled in front of over 300 spectators at the FC Stars Massachusetts tournament this weekend. As a spectator who came to watch this game, I was disappointed to see MatchFit Shore had no style with so much talent on the field. Some Matchfit Shore parents clearly upset after the game with the coaches behavior will surely walk next year.

Just to be very clear on this, Tetro didn't hang around for the 2nd place medals because this guy is a big pussy and was afraid of NH or any of the PDA parents confronting him on what he said during the game. Just another time this jerk stole his kids moment because of his ego. If anyone saw this jerkoffs face in the Supercopa 2nd place photo, then you know what I mean. Tetro couldn't care less about his players, hes more concerned about his ego. If DB only knew what Tetro says about him behind his back, DB would can him. Just like everyone else is posting on here, why any parent would want their kid around him is crazy.

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Don’t think for one sec PDA’s grass is greener. Yes they won- but those 09’s have suffered greatly. It’s all around not okay from either side.

The grass is definitely greener at PDA. No one is suffering on the 09’s. Those who left did so because they want more playing time for their daughter or sometimes PDA is too competitive of an environment. Not all parents can handle it and thats ok. PDA doesn’t play Marlboro Rec tournaments. Every game is a competitive matchup. You can blame NH, his coaching, not wanting to develop players… it’s all BS. The so called ‘rec player’ he picked up over a year ago couldn’t be beaten by MF shore in the championship game this weekend. Sounds like player development to me. This is just throwing shade to try and keep MF Shore together.

The top 12 players never leave. Most have been on the team for 4-5 years. Add some top notch pick ups this past spring and PDA should be pretty excited for the upcoming year (win or lose in games this year doesn’t matter. This team will go far in the years to come).

Listen, if it’s the right choice for your family and you can find a better fit for your player, and the relationship you want with the coach, then you made the right decision to move on. But rest assured, we are happy in our green pasture.

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Agree with this. PDA won and that’s good for them but doesn’t change their behavior. When they lose it’s just as brutal if not worse. These kids have struggled. Not worth it — just to say a 12-14 year won a game.

PDA is not brutal. It is not worse. Who are you? PDA 09 have lost games, which happens when you play great competition. Losing a game is the greatest teaching moment and film review only makes them stronger. No one is struggling over a lost game at PDA. NH doesn’t reprimand players he coaches them. That’s why their progress has been so intense in one year. The top players at MF Shore are already on the phone with NH. Who are you kidding? Jason should pick up the phone too because his daughter is great and he would love it at PDA. You talk **** about him here, and you would never see that from one PDA family to another (on social media nonetheless)… 225 days until you can leave the dark side. Why do you think they call it that? Because you all are nice? If a bad rap is what you want, then you accomplished it. Teams all over the east coast congratulating the win only because of such repeated awful representation by RT and MF shore parents on the sidelines. This can only be SK, JH, or DD. Knock it off with this nonsense.

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The grass is definitely greener at PDA. No one is suffering on the 09’s. Those who left did so because they want more playing time for their daughter or sometimes PDA is too competitive of an environment. Not all parents can handle it and thats ok. PDA doesn’t play Marlboro Rec tournaments. Every game is a competitive matchup. You can blame NH, his coaching, not wanting to develop players… it’s all BS. The so called ‘rec player’ he picked up over a year ago couldn’t be beaten by MF shore in the championship game this weekend. Sounds like player development to me. This is just throwing shade to try and keep MF Shore together.

The top 12 players never leave. Most have been on the team for 4-5 years. Add some top notch pick ups this past spring and PDA should be pretty excited for the upcoming year (win or lose in games this year doesn’t matter. This team will go far in the years to come).

Listen, if it’s the right choice for your family and you can find a better fit for your player, and the relationship you want with the coach, then you made the right decision to move on. But rest assured, we are happy in our green pasture.

Oh stop it with the top 12 never leave bull crap. Congrats to the girls that showed their stuff on the field of play against another constructed strong team. Agree with comments on RT. That guy has been made relevant by a group of parents whose kids he has prioritized.

NH definitely has more playing and training credentials than RT but let’s not make the guy out to be Pep Guardiola. He wins by bringing in talented players on a rolling basis that compliment talented players on the roster. Maybe he’ll attract some players from MFS to join a roster of some those “players that never leave” and somehow change the rules of soccer to have 15 players on the field at one time.

That MFS crew needed a dose of humility and hopefully PDA provided some without bringing a wave “PDA is the best place in the world to develop talent” posts. Then again some folks have no shame.

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LOL, this is all hilarious to me as a Bethesda parent. I just wish PDA would post its goals over and over and over again just like Shore did with it’s corner kicks at the USYS final. Shared it with everyone and their darn mother via Instagram and TicToc.

We are that example that the previous poster made. We also found it classless. I don’t know if we will ever beat MFA Shore or PDA, but if we do, we saw a clear representation by both coaches and parents alike on how not to act.

Congrats to PDA for winning after a year of non stop smack talk from MFA and its affiliates.

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Oh stop it with the top 12 never leave bull crap. Congrats to the girls that showed their stuff on the field of play against another constructed strong team. Agree with comments on RT. That guy has been made relevant by a group of parents whose kids he has prioritized.

NH definitely has more playing and training credentials than RT but let’s not make the guy out to be Pep Guardiola. He wins by bringing in talented players on a rolling basis that compliment talented players on the roster. Maybe he’ll attract some players from MFS to join a roster of some those “players that never leave” and somehow change the rules of soccer to have 15 players on the field at one time.

That MFS crew needed a dose of humility and hopefully PDA provided some without bringing a wave “PDA is the best place in the world to develop talent” posts. Then again some folks have no shame.

Good post. Let’s all calm down.
12 years old kids won a soccer game, 12 year old kids lost a soccer game. When you read that it hopefully brings you down to earth.
Get perspective on what you are cheering or crying about. Yes the MF guys is bad news but for the record, NH and PDA is not a coach or club worth admiration either.