Parents personal life ruining our team, how to deal with this?

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As members of the same soccer team, we have become like a close-knit family. However, recent events have caused us to question whether or not we would be the "aholes" if we were to reveal information that we have that two of our teammates' parents, who are also friends and neighbors, may be having an affair. We have seen them meeting at a local restaurant once they drop the kids off at practice. spotted them parked late at night in our hotel parking lot in his car with tinted windows. (They are not just sitting there for hours) together during tournaments when their spouses were not present. It's a difficult situation because the husband's wife, who is also a friend, is completely unaware. Some of us are torn about whether or not to tell her, while others feel it is our duty to inform her. It's a delicate situation that has been causing tension and discomfort within the team. We can't help but wonder if we would be considered the "aholes" if we were to reveal what we have seen. Ultimately, our concern lies with the well-being of our teammate's wife and the impact this could have on our team. The two families are friends and neighbors and we feel so uncomfortable around this mess. It's destroying our team. Does happen on other teams too?

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You took the best first step. Post about it here

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I’m invested. Absolutely need to keep everyone posted.

Are you in North, Central or South Jersey?

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I mean if I was the wife I’d like someone to let me know. I’d hate to show up to a game with others whispering about what’s going on and me not knowing.

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I’m invested. Absolutely need to keep everyone posted.

Are you in North, Central or South Jersey?

Will do. This situation sucks for everyone. South Jersey

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As members of the same soccer team, we have become like a close-knit family. However, recent events have caused us to question whether or not we would be the "aholes" if we were to reveal information that we have that two of our teammates' parents, who are also friends and neighbors, may be having an affair. We have seen them meeting at a local restaurant once they drop the kids off at practice. spotted them parked late at night in our hotel parking lot in his car with tinted windows. (They are not just sitting there for hours) together during tournaments when their spouses were not present. It's a difficult situation because the husband's wife, who is also a friend, is completely unaware. Some of us are torn about whether or not to tell her, while others feel it is our duty to inform her. It's a delicate situation that has been causing tension and discomfort within the team. We can't help but wonder if we would be considered the "aholes" if we were to reveal what we have seen. Ultimately, our concern lies with the well-being of our teammate's wife and the impact this could have on our team. The two families are friends and neighbors and we feel so uncomfortable around this mess. It's destroying our team. Does happen on other teams too?

Worse at NJ Blaze. The coach was screwing around with the team mom last year. We all knew about it but kept our mounts shut. The husband was a nice guy. We felt really bad for him. Eventually, the mom ended it, but FK made it hard and she wound up moving out of state to get away from him. Now, he's screwing around with the club administrator. Again, we all know about it but keep out mouth shut. Funny thing is, FK is a ugly dude. Why he's able to hook up like this is a joke. What some people will do for playtime for their kids is my guess.

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We love this stuff at the shore!

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We love this stuff at the shore!

Like when we saw RT at the bar of his hotel (not the team hotel) with the purple hair mom of the 2010s?

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Worse at NJ Blaze. The coach was screwing around with the team mom last year. We all knew about it but kept our mounts shut. The husband was a nice guy. We felt really bad for him. Eventually, the mom ended it, but FK made it hard and she wound up moving out of state to get away from him. Now, he's screwing around with the club administrator. Again, we all know about it but keep out mouth shut. Funny thing is, FK is a ugly dude. Why he's able to hook up like this is a joke. What some people will do for playtime for their kids is my guess.

Fk is a ugly dude? Have you seen the team administrator? Let's just say I hope those two never have a kid.

[Guest]

As members of the same soccer team, we have become like a close-knit family. However, recent events have caused us to question whether or not we would be the "aholes" if we were to reveal information that we have that two of our teammates' parents, who are also friends and neighbors, may be having an affair. We have seen them meeting at a local restaurant once they drop the kids off at practice. spotted them parked late at night in our hotel parking lot in his car with tinted windows. (They are not just sitting there for hours) together during tournaments when their spouses were not present. It's a difficult situation because the husband's wife, who is also a friend, is completely unaware. Some of us are torn about whether or not to tell her, while others feel it is our duty to inform her. It's a delicate situation that has been causing tension and discomfort within the team. We can't help but wonder if we would be considered the "aholes" if we were to reveal what we have seen. Ultimately, our concern lies with the well-being of our teammate's wife and the impact this could have on our team. The two families are friends and neighbors and we feel so uncomfortable around this mess. It's destroying our team. Does happen on other teams too?

Why is it destroying the team? Hopefully it's kept from the kids and they are going about their business blissfully unaware of what mom is doing behind dad's back.

Not all parents like each other, just the facts. Support your kids and if you want to gossip, so be it. Just keep it away from them and I can't fathom how it would destroy a team.

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Why is it destroying the team? Hopefully it's kept from the kids and they are going about their business blissfully unaware of what mom is doing behind dad's back.

Not all parents like each other, just the facts. Support your kids and if you want to gossip, so be it. Just keep it away from them and I can't fathom how it would destroy a team.

Hopefully she's on TS and finds out from this. She should know, but I wouldn't be the one to tell her.

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As members of the same soccer team, we have become like a close-knit family. However, recent events have caused us to question whether or not we would be the "aholes" if we were to reveal information that we have that two of our teammates' parents, who are also friends and neighbors, may be having an affair. We have seen them meeting at a local restaurant once they drop the kids off at practice. spotted them parked late at night in our hotel parking lot in his car with tinted windows. (They are not just sitting there for hours) together during tournaments when their spouses were not present. It's a difficult situation because the husband's wife, who is also a friend, is completely unaware. Some of us are torn about whether or not to tell her, while others feel it is our duty to inform her. It's a delicate situation that has been causing tension and discomfort within the team. We can't help but wonder if we would be considered the "aholes" if we were to reveal what we have seen. Ultimately, our concern lies with the well-being of our teammate's wife and the impact this could have on our team. The two families are friends and neighbors and we feel so uncomfortable around this mess. It's destroying our team. Does happen on other teams too?

You seem like a bigger problem. Could you imagine a Mom/Dad coming on here and posting this?!?!? What a freaking loser.

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You should discuss it with the players and see what they think you should do.

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I feel like this king of thing is way more common than you think

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I have a feeling this person is pissed that they are not involved with the mom/dad.