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    Parents: What's really important to you?

    Ask yourselves how important it is for you to log onto this forum and bash clubs, coaches, and players when someone very much like you is mourning the tragic death of their own son and star soccer player. Be thankful that your children are still alive, rather than being pissed off that they aren't getting the same playing time as others, or their team was beaten by another team at a meaningless tournament.

    I'm sure the Reynolds' would gladly accept their son playing on a B team or going to a D2 college if it meant they could have their son back.

    Think twice before you type that next post...........



    Schoolboy soccer star fatally stabbed In Springfield, 2 violent deaths
    By Jack Nicas, Globe Correspondent | March 15, 2010

    Entering the weekend, Springfield had had only one murder in 2010. But in a span of two days, a spurt of violence left two dead and two injured in the city, police said.

    The first victim was Conor Reynolds, 17, a star soccer player at Cathedral High School in Springfield. He was fatally stabbed in the neck about 11 p.m. Saturday outside a packed birthday party at a local restaurant. A 17-year-old classmate was stabbed in the arm in the attack, but survived. Police were looking for a specific suspect in Reynolds’s death: a neighborhood teenager who may have no connection to the victim.

    “His life ended over little or no provocation by someone he didn’t even know, which is tragic in any case,’’ Springfield Police Sergeant John Delaney said in a telephone interview.

    The attack occurred outside Blue Fusion Bar and Grill, which recently lost its liquor license, Delaney said. There, 3 miles from the quiet neighborhood of Cathedral High, a birthday party ballooned to more than 250 attendees, most between 16 to 20 years old, Delaney said. “It’s kind of near a high crime area,’’ he said. “They didn’t hire any police officers, and there were over 250 people, which is way too much for that building.’’

    Witnesses said a 5-foot-7-inch black male, between 16 and 20 years old, stabbed Reynolds and his friend, the goalie on Cathedral’s hockey team, then fled on foot, police said. The other victim was treated and released from Baystate Medical Center.

    Mayor Domenic J. Sarno is examining Blue Fusion’s entertainment license, Delaney said. The restaurant’s management did not return a message last night.

    Joe Pantuosco, who coached Reynolds for four winning seasons at Cathedral, called the teenager the team’s “franchise player.’’ Several Division 3 schools were recruiting Reynolds, Pantuosco said. “He could put a Division 3 [team] on the map by himself; that’s how good he is,’’ Pantuosco said.

    Hundreds mourned Reynolds yesterday on a Facebook page started by a classmate.

    #2
    Oh God........you say goodbye to your kid on the way to a party, and then he's gone.......

    I can't imagine......it really does put things in perspective.

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      #3
      Way to use a tragedy to tell people how to conduct themselves the way you see fit. Please get of your high horse and stop preaching, there are children killed senselessly every day, lets not take advantage of them by using the situation to push your agenda.....

      You disgust me.

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        #4
        Originally posted by Unregistered View Post
        Way to use a tragedy to tell people how to conduct themselves the way you see fit. Please get of your high horse and stop preaching, there are children killed senselessly every day, lets not take advantage of them by using the situation to push your agenda.....

        You disgust me.
        But you're cool though huh?

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          #5
          Originally posted by Unregistered View Post
          Way to use a tragedy to tell people how to conduct themselves the way you see fit. Please get of your high horse and stop preaching, there are children killed senselessly every day, lets not take advantage of them by using the situation to push your agenda.....

          You disgust me.
          What is the "agenda" you're referring to?

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            #6
            Originally posted by Unregistered View Post
            Way to use a tragedy to tell people how to conduct themselves the way you see fit. Please get of your high horse and stop preaching, there are children killed senselessly every day, lets not take advantage of them by using the situation to push your agenda.....

            You disgust me.
            Agreed. I love people who make their way down here from the moral high ground.

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              #7
              Originally posted by Unregistered View Post
              What is the "agenda" you're referring to?
              It must be the one trying to have people think twice about bashing a coach or a club or a player because of the choices they made in club or college....you know, trying to make it a bit nicer in here. Guess thats a bad thing.

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                #8
                Originally posted by Unregistered View Post
                Agreed. I love people who make their way down here from the moral high ground.
                Guess its bad to have morals eh?

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                  #9
                  Originally posted by Unregistered View Post
                  Way to use a tragedy to tell people how to conduct themselves the way you see fit. Please get of your high horse and stop preaching, there are children killed senselessly every day, lets not take advantage of them by using the situation to push your agenda.....

                  You disgust me.
                  you are clueless

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                    #10
                    Originally posted by Unregistered View Post
                    you are clueless
                    Remember, this site is not about soccer. It uses soccer as an excuse to bash other entities behind an anonymous screen. That's why nearly everyone is Unregistered. Maybe good therapy for some? If I were you, just enjoy the evil bantering and participate occasionally but don't take any of this seriously.

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                      #11
                      Originally posted by Unregistered View Post
                      Way to use a tragedy to tell people how to conduct themselves the way you see fit. Please get of your high horse and stop preaching, there are children killed senselessly every day, lets not take advantage of them by using the situation to push your agenda.....

                      You disgust me.
                      Actually, what I find disgusting is your attitude towards this, and you are the classless individual I was referring to.

                      I have no agenda. I didn't post an agenda. I didn't mention anything about a club, a player, or a coach. In fact, my post was probably the 3rd or 4th I have put on this forum.

                      The only reason I posted it is because the people like you who post here do so as if having their kid play on certain teams, for certain clubs, or behind certain players act as if it some kind of terrible tragedy. In reality, it's not all that important compared to the slaughter of an innocent kid who did nothing more than go to a birthday party. Is it a tragedy when other kids are killed? Yes it is. But I posted this because this kid was the captain of his soccer team, a recruited athlete, and great teammate. Something every parent in this forum believes are the qualities of their own children.

                      So the only morality based agenda I'm guilty of is trying to point out to the classless parents such as yourself is that your issues are quite so important when compared to some others who are just like you. No kid ever died because they didn't play for teh Stars, didn't start, or wasn't put on the field as a center midfielder.

                      Considering the over the top mentality of this forum, I'm not surprised you'd respond like you did. You can't teach class, you can't fix stupid, and even if you spray a pig with perfume, it will still be a pig.

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                        #12
                        I can see where posters could be irritated that you tie their posts to a random act of violence that resulted in the senseless death of a good kid. You could have just posted the article and wrote that it puts things in perspective rather than preaching. But you didn't.

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                          #13
                          Originally posted by Unregistered View Post
                          I can see where posters could be irritated that you tie their posts to a random act of violence that resulted in the senseless death of a good kid. You could have just posted the article and wrote that it puts things in perspective rather than preaching. But you didn't.
                          I believe it was done on purpose, and I agree with the tactic. This forum is over the top with over zealous parents who completely lack perspective. And some of replies proves it.

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                            #14
                            Originally posted by Unregistered View Post
                            I can see where posters could be irritated that you tie their posts to a random act of violence that resulted in the senseless death of a good kid. You could have just posted the article and wrote that it puts things in perspective rather than preaching. But you didn't.
                            Lighten up Frances. Not that big of a deal.

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                              #15
                              Originally posted by Unregistered View Post
                              Actually, what I find disgusting is your attitude towards this, and you are the classless individual I was referring to.

                              I have no agenda. I didn't post an agenda. I didn't mention anything about a club, a player, or a coach. In fact, my post was probably the 3rd or 4th I have put on this forum.

                              The only reason I posted it is because the people like you who post here do so as if having their kid play on certain teams, for certain clubs, or behind certain players act as if it some kind of terrible tragedy. In reality, it's not all that important compared to the slaughter of an innocent kid who did nothing more than go to a birthday party. Is it a tragedy when other kids are killed? Yes it is. But I posted this because this kid was the captain of his soccer team, a recruited athlete, and great teammate. Something every parent in this forum believes are the qualities of their own children.

                              So the only morality based agenda I'm guilty of is trying to point out to the classless parents such as yourself is that your issues are quite so important when compared to some others who are just like you. No kid ever died because they didn't play for teh Stars, didn't start, or wasn't put on the field as a center midfielder.

                              Considering the over the top mentality of this forum, I'm not surprised you'd respond like you did. You can't teach class, you can't fix stupid, and even if you spray a pig with perfume, it will still be a pig.



                              Your intentions were most likely, just to bring awareness, and a sense of reality to certain types of parents.

                              Some people think that the parental preoccupation with their children's sports activities borders on the unhealthy.


                              Other people do not see it that way.

                              In a nutshell, I think that many parents who are on the "high horse " of preoccupation with their children's sports activities are actually miserable, but are in a state of denial.

                              Also what the internet reveals, is that there are some really strange , heartless souils out there.

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