We spend the money we do on soccer because it teaches our kids life lessons that are hard to get in the modern world we live. They can be decisive under pressure, they stand up for themselves, they learn to push their bodies and their minds to the limit. They don't give up just because something is hard.
This flows over in to their school work and focus off the field.
I've got one that's an academic and just wants to be good enough to make the high school team and then head off to MIT (etc), and one that just wants to play in college (any college) and be a school gym teacher.
We raised both kids the same and they have come out quite different :) That's the point of being a parent you find the path that is best for your kid. So if for one it's ending soccer and not playing in college (even after all the money spent on RCL) that's fine. If the other goes to CC for 2 years and gets her AA then moves to a larger university that's great too, theirs no shame in that.
Not sure if it's still the same, but used to be that Washington state schools had to accept 90% of applicants with an AA, so it was a great back door for kids who maybe didn't get the best grades in high school, or couldn't afford a full university.
I was one of those kids who could never afford club soccer, it's a crap system. I went to CC for two years paid for with need based pell grants and then did loans for my 2 years of major coursework. My degree is no less valid then the folks that went to the same school for four years, it's actually an identical piece of paper, imagine that.
This flows over in to their school work and focus off the field.
I've got one that's an academic and just wants to be good enough to make the high school team and then head off to MIT (etc), and one that just wants to play in college (any college) and be a school gym teacher.
We raised both kids the same and they have come out quite different :) That's the point of being a parent you find the path that is best for your kid. So if for one it's ending soccer and not playing in college (even after all the money spent on RCL) that's fine. If the other goes to CC for 2 years and gets her AA then moves to a larger university that's great too, theirs no shame in that.
Not sure if it's still the same, but used to be that Washington state schools had to accept 90% of applicants with an AA, so it was a great back door for kids who maybe didn't get the best grades in high school, or couldn't afford a full university.
I was one of those kids who could never afford club soccer, it's a crap system. I went to CC for two years paid for with need based pell grants and then did loans for my 2 years of major coursework. My degree is no less valid then the folks that went to the same school for four years, it's actually an identical piece of paper, imagine that.
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