I get that this thread was started about a specific player and parent, I don't know anything about that. In general though I agree with those who feel that is not the case. On all the teams my kids have been on, the majority of the time the parents of the best players are the few who are relaxed and easygoing, compared to the neurotic micro managers of the bubble players.
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Originally posted by Unregistered View PostI get that this thread was started about a specific player and parent, I don't know anything about that. In general though I agree with those who feel that is not the case. On all the teams my kids have been on, the majority of the time the parents of the best players are the few who are relaxed and easygoing, compared to the neurotic micro managers of the bubble players.
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Originally posted by Unregistered View PostMy child plays in the Premier Division and throughout the years of coaches we have had, all have explicitly demanded silence from the parents on the sidelines except for the positive cheering for the team and even that is expected to be on a quiet and calm level. Any deviation from these demands from the parents results in their child getting benched. I would have to say that some of the most obnoxious comments do come from a handful of Onyx parents but what I find most interesting is the actual team members of Onyx are the quietest and most respectful players we have played against. One Dad in particular from Onyx probably doesn't care that he is embarrassing his daughter beyond belief or at best doesn't realize how stupid he sounds. Some of our parents have created a drinking game based on every time he makes a stupid repetitious comment. Needless to say, we are completely wasted by half time.
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Originally posted by Unregistered View PostI hope you're joking. It's a little alarming that you're drinking at a child's soccer game. If true, I hope you're not getting in the car afterwards to drive your player home.
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Originally posted by Unregistered View PostNo, my daughter drives us home. I never drink and drive. At Onyx, we teach responsibility for your actions at a young age. If you see me driving fast on your tail, move out of the way. If you see my daughter on your tail, she had better not rear end you unless you want to deal with me.
I am not offended by the comments, but also don't find it funny.
Obviously the poster is trying to be funny. Was curious if anyone thought the post was funny.
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Originally posted by Unregistered View PostIt is strange someone can be so obsessed with one U15 girl's team.
I am not offended by the comments, but also don't find it funny.
Obviously the poster is trying to be funny. Was curious if anyone thought the post was funny.
I think both sides incite each other, and justify their behaviour based on the other one, but realistically they both are acting like 3rd graders.
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Originally posted by Unregistered View PostIn all honesty I think the whole Onyx thing could be toned down on both sides of the discussion...the parents and players are not bad people or some sort of monsters, but they also don't walk on water.
I think both sides incite each other, and justify their behaviour based on the other one, but realistically they both are acting like 3rd graders.
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Originally posted by Unregistered View PostThere is a new FC Portland Onyx team. They are constantly posting and bragging in the 02 thread so that is probably who is posting on this one.
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Originally posted by Unregistered View PostNo, my daughter drives us home. I never drink and drive. At Onyx, we teach responsibility for your actions at a young age. If you see me driving fast on your tail, move out of the way. If you see my daughter on your tail, she had better not rear end you unless you want to deal with me.
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