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Originally posted by Unregistered View PostSo we should just let teams go rouge and leave the club every time things don't go the way a poorly behaved coach or entitled group of parents want? It's the parents and coach who are to blame here. I have absolutely no connection to this team, and never write on this crazy site, but need to stand up to the crazy youth soccer monsters. I would guess that most of the girls on that team were coached and developed for several years at their original club- lots of people probably put time into them as players. Going rogue hurts the players that left, the age group they left behind, and their opponents. Furthermore, what message are you sending-- when the going gets tough, run away. You might think you have a good thing going with your coach and team, but it's a very short sighted outlook you have. And you deserve what you got in terms of league placement-- a year down the tubes-- no one to blame but coach and parents.
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Originally posted by Unregistered View PostSo we should just let teams go rouge and leave the club every time things don't go the way a poorly behaved coach or entitled group of parents want? It's the parents and coach who are to blame here. I have absolutely no connection to this team, and never write on this crazy site, but need to stand up to the crazy youth soccer monsters. I would guess that most of the girls on that team were coached and developed for several years at their original club- lots of people probably put time into them as players. Going rogue hurts the players that left, the age group they left behind, and their opponents. Furthermore, what message are you sending-- when the going gets tough, run away. You might think you have a good thing going with your coach and team, but it's a very short sighted outlook you have. And you deserve what you got in terms of league placement-- a year down the tubes-- no one to blame but coach and parents.
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I'm not that ruler guy. No dog in the fight but I side with TT on this one. DoCs/Clubs want to be judge jury, executioner and absolute ruler. They want parents & players to have zero say in anything yet foot the bill for everything. The players/parents are the PAYING customers. Clubs forget this important fact too often. They also often forget they are supposedly in this business to be helping kids, NOT creating their own fiefdoms at the expense of the kids. A WT CopaTS girls team did something similar a few years ago after taking 2nd in State Cup.
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if you don't stand up for what you believe in, how can you tell your kids to be that kind of person? sometimes you have to draw a line in the sand and just stop what the rest of the world is doing and drive your own truck down the throat of the competitior no matter what their kids might think. Did you ever think of that? I wish I had a breeze running down my leg.
Why don't the club admins think of the best for the kids? Sometimes its egos or control. Other times its hambone or something similar.
Regardless, we as parents need to band together and stand up for what's right. No orange peanuts.
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Originally posted by Unregistered View Postif you don't stand up for what you believe in, how can you tell your kids to be that kind of person? sometimes you have to draw a line in the sand and just stop what the rest of the world is doing and drive your own truck down the throat of the competitior no matter what their kids might think. Did you ever think of that? I wish I had a breeze running down my leg.
Why don't the club admins think of the best for the kids? Sometimes its egos or control. Other times its hambone or something similar.
Regardless, we as parents need to band together and stand up for what's right. No orange peanuts.
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Originally posted by Unregistered View PostDidn't the club refund the money if the family left? TT parents feel they did what was right by following their coach. Club did what they felt was right by releasing the coach. I don't know the specifics, but a family friend is involved and it didn't sound like a black or white issue. Kids wanted to stay with friends.
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Originally posted by Unregistered View PostWe all received refunds from BSC.
Club releases the coach. Players decide to follow coach, just before league starts. Club refunds money for the whole year, allowing parents to do what they feel is best for their kid. Did the club do what is in the best interest of the players? Seems all the club did was release a coach (who has a history of being released).
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Originally posted by Unregistered View PostWe all received refunds from BSC.
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Originally posted by Unregistered View PostI am trying understand what happened; please correct any misunderstandings. Thanks.
Club releases the coach. Players decide to follow coach, just before league starts. Club refunds money for the whole year, allowing parents to do what they feel is best for their kid. Did the club do what is in the best interest of the players? Seems all the club did was release a coach (who has a history of being released).
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Originally posted by Unregistered View PostYou got lucky then. They had every right to say "don't let the door hit you on the way out". Doesn't matter anyway. Team is done in a few months. Several already looking and occasionally training with other clubs.
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Originally posted by Unregistered View PostI am trying understand what happened; please correct any misunderstandings. Thanks.
Club releases the coach. Players decide to follow coach, just before league starts. Club refunds money for the whole year, allowing parents to do what they feel is best for their kid. Did the club do what is in the best interest of the players? Seems all the club did was release a coach (who has a history of being released).
As parents and paying customers perhaps we should demand new club contracts that allow for unsatisfied players to leave and only get a pro rated bill for the time the services were rendered. Certainly would make clubs act more in favor of the players - their customers.
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Originally posted by Unregistered View PostYou got lucky then. They had every right to say "don't let the door hit you on the way out". Doesn't matter anyway. Team is done in a few months. Several already looking and occasionally training with other clubs.
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