The Untold Truth of PDA

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PDA parent, you are such a fraud that you don't even do realize RT never coached a CSA 2010 team and the MFS 2010 is newly formed and didn't follow anyone. Keep up the good lie!

The parent didn't say her daughter was on the 2010 team, only that her daughter is a '10.

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I get PDA bashing is the "in" thing right now, and I'm guessing it's the MF Shore parents posting this garbage to try and deflect the attention away from them. My experience has been with MF Shore. My 2010 followed this coach over from CSA. We were loyal and stuck with him even though we heard alot of negative things about him. My daughter is a good player, does alot of outside training because she didn't want to lose her position. Unfortunately, the coach likes to constantly recruit new kids. My daughter had her playtime shortened every game with the addition of new players. Not just her, but all the ones loyal to this coach and followed him over from CSA. Were these new kids better than my daughter? No, not really, but they were new, and the coach had to justify them making the move from their original club and unfortunately some kids, the existing ones, got screwed. So much for loyalty. And to be honest, 10/11 years old is a little to young to be taught a life lesson like this. Some may disagree, but that's the way I feel. We wanted to attend the CSA id camp on a Saturday, and when this coach found out a few of us were attending, he scheduled a last minute "mandatory " practice that every had to attend, the exact same time as the CSA id camp. Again, so much for loyalty. We are leaving the club in the fall, returning to CSA. Its great to say PDA is such a horrible place to be, but there is two sides to every coin, and unfortunately MF Shore has a worse reputation with this one particular coach doing exactly what everyone says happens at PDA. And since I'm talking about PDA, let me end on this, we have a friend who's daughter plays at PDA North. She has been there for 3 years and enjoys the club, team and coaches. I showed her alot of these posts and asked her about them and she has said, in her daughter's situation, she has never seen any of what people are claiming. Her experience with PDA has been good, and she has no thoughts on leaving. It's like one poster said awhile ago on this forum, everything you read on here is true, except for the things that are not. My advise is to use this forum as I do, for entertainment purposes only. If you base you whole life on what you read on here, you are as crazy as the people that spew this garbage.

We heard about RT's "mandatory" practice on that saturday. He had kids so petrified to miss his practice that they blew off the CSA id camp. That guy is such a loser. Thank god his 09 team is as good as they are, because they are his only claim to fame.

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The parent didn't say her daughter was on the 2010 team, only that her daughter is a '10.

That's what MF Shore parents do, thay take things and spin it to thier advantage. It's like when they post that people say horrible things about the 2009 time, when in reality no one has ever said anything bad about them, only their coach. When was the last time you read a post calling the MF Shore kids "losers" or "pieces of ****"?

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I get PDA bashing is the "in" thing right now, and I'm guessing it's the MF Shore parents posting this garbage to try and deflect the attention away from them. My experience has been with MF Shore. My 2010 followed this coach over from CSA. We were loyal and stuck with him even though we heard alot of negative things about him. My daughter is a good player, does alot of outside training because she didn't want to lose her position. Unfortunately, the coach likes to constantly recruit new kids. My daughter had her playtime shortened every game with the addition of new players. Not just her, but all the ones loyal to this coach and followed him over from CSA. Were these new kids better than my daughter? No, not really, but they were new, and the coach had to justify them making the move from their original club and unfortunately some kids, the existing ones, got screwed. So much for loyalty. And to be honest, 10/11 years old is a little to young to be taught a life lesson like this. Some may disagree, but that's the way I feel. We wanted to attend the CSA id camp on a Saturday, and when this coach found out a few of us were attending, he scheduled a last minute "mandatory " practice that every had to attend, the exact same time as the CSA id camp. Again, so much for loyalty. We are leaving the club in the fall, returning to CSA. Its great to say PDA is such a horrible place to be, but there is two sides to every coin, and unfortunately MF Shore has a worse reputation with this one particular coach doing exactly what everyone says happens at PDA. And since I'm talking about PDA, let me end on this, we have a friend who's daughter plays at PDA North. She has been there for 3 years and enjoys the club, team and coaches. I showed her alot of these posts and asked her about them and she has said, in her daughter's situation, she has never seen any of what people are claiming. Her experience with PDA has been good, and she has no thoughts on leaving. It's like one poster said awhile ago on this forum, everything you read on here is true, except for the things that are not. My advise is to use this forum as I do, for entertainment purposes only. If you base you whole life on what you read on here, you are as crazy as the people that spew this garbage.

Two consecutive posts. A minute apart. One claims that he’s got a friend whose daughter plays for PDA and the other with a tone sounds like a PDA parent.

Who are you really? Before you discredit others, you might want to see a doctor about splitting your personality.

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The parent didn't say her daughter was on the 2010 team, only that her daughter is a '10.

So she's a 2010 who followed RT from CSA and is playing on his 2009 team?

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So she's a 2010 who followed RT from CSA and is playing on his 2009 team?

Could have been a 2010 playing on his 2011 team

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Two consecutive posts. A minute apart. One claims that he’s got a friend whose daughter plays for PDA and the other with a tone sounds like a PDA parent.

Who are you really? Before you discredit others, you might want to see a doctor about splitting your personality.

Now we are comparing the times of postings? Come on mate, you can do a little better than that, no?

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So she's a 2010 who followed RT from CSA and is playing on his 2009 team?

PDA parents have lies upon lies to cover their lies.

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Now we are comparing the times of postings? Come on mate, you can do a little better than that, no?

Someone got caught red handed.

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PDA parents have lies upon lies to cover their lies.

This is why MF Shore is the #1 destination club in NJ. All those low life, wanna be losers over at PDA couldn't measure up to our kids. I bet aborting those kids 11 years ago would have probably been a wise decision and saved them the embarrassment of playing for PDA. I haven't met one person who has said they were proud to be there. PDA is a joke. How many #1 ranked teams in the country does PDA have? What a joke. **** you PDA.

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This is why MF Shore is the #1 destination club in NJ. All those low life, wanna be losers over at PDA couldn't measure up to our kids. I bet aborting those kids 11 years ago would have probably been a wise decision and saved them the embarrassment of playing for PDA. I haven't met one person who has said they were proud to be there. PDA is a joke. How many #1 ranked teams in the country does PDA have? What a joke. **** you PDA.

Gee, let me guess, "not a MF shore parent", correct?

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Someone got caught red handed.

PDA parents are not the brightest

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PDA parents are not the brightest

It is now very obvious IMO that every single time someone says something negative about PDA, a PDA coach jumps in pretending to be MF to distract. MF is not the issue.

PDA Girls IS THE PROBLEM. They are offering less and less every year to their players and it shows in the results. The man in charge (Tom- the owner) needs to read the reviews, either on here or talk to the families. Or learn from the boys side which works well.

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This is why MF Shore is the #1 destination club in NJ. All those low life, wanna be losers over at PDA couldn't measure up to our kids. I bet aborting those kids 11 years ago would have probably been a wise decision and saved them the embarrassment of playing for PDA. I haven't met one person who has said they were proud to be there. PDA is a joke. How many #1 ranked teams in the country does PDA have? What a joke. **** you PDA.

So how do you explain this video of MFS coach trying to convince parent to stay when they no longer wanted him as coach:

https://youtu.be/O2JEvQUQIU0

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It is now very obvious IMO that every single time someone says something negative about PDA, a PDA coach jumps in pretending to be MF to distract. MF is not the issue.

PDA Girls IS THE PROBLEM. They are offering less and less every year to their players and it shows in the results. The man in charge (Tom- the owner) needs to read the reviews, either on here or talk to the families. Or learn from the boys side which works well.

So a PDA coach is calling PDA girls "losers" and "pieces of ****" to distract away from the PDA girls? Dude, your really reaching here....