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    Coaches sleeping with former players

    Does anyone else find it weird that two coaches at least in NJ are married too former players and I can think of at least one more who is known to have slept with former players and all 3 are still coaching young girls teams to this day? Stomach churning.

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    Are they related? Legal age?

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      #3
      At least one is in Maryland now

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        #4
        Originally posted by Unregistered View Post
        At least one is in Maryland now
        So, anything illegal or you’re just creeped out. Please provide your phone number.

        Or just trying to bury negative MF info with allegations that could be investigated against you.

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          #5
          Originally posted by Unregistered View Post
          Does anyone else find it weird that two coaches at least in NJ are married too former players and I can think of at least one more who is known to have slept with former players and all 3 are still coaching young girls teams to this day? Stomach churning.
          That's almost as bad as the guy Ryan Tetro getting drunk in front of his young players. Who knows what this clown is saying in front of these young kids when hes three sheets to the wind, but I heard once you get a few beers on him hes quick to talk **** about everyone, from players to their parents, to people above him in his club.

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            #6
            As long as nothing was going on while they were minors and everyone is a consenting adult when relationships started up there's nothing to say. Creepy yes, illegal no. Many coaches are quite young so the age gaps often aren't that large - again, assuming it started up >18 years of age.

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              #7
              Originally posted by Unregistered View Post
              As long as nothing was going on while they were minors and everyone is a consenting adult when relationships started up there's nothing to say. Creepy yes, illegal no. Many coaches are quite young so the age gaps often aren't that large - again, assuming it started up >18 years of age.
              That’s exactly what the post says though isn’t it? Nothing about the legality, just that we have two coaches Danny A game and Shaun cryer both who have married kids who they coached which should make people sick. Ed Duddy at STA is also known to have dated multiple players in his years.

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                #8
                Originally posted by Unregistered View Post
                That’s exactly what the post says though isn’t it? Nothing about the legality, just that we have two coaches Danny A game and Shaun cryer both who have married kids who they coached which should make people sick. Ed Duddy at STA is also known to have dated multiple players in his years.
                How long after turning 18 did a relationship start? Quickly, or years later? What's the age gap? There's lots of college coach/former player relationships out there too, which as long as it started after the player graduated/left the program is allowable. Seems like you're stretching to nail clubs for something, probably more likely you're a competitor not even a "concerned parent"

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                  #9
                  It’s allowable by law for sure, but I don’t think you’ll find many parents who thinks it’s allowable morally

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                    #10
                    Originally posted by Unregistered View Post
                    That’s exactly what the post says though isn’t it? Nothing about the legality, just that we have two coaches Danny A game and Shaun cryer both who have married kids who they coached which should make people sick. Ed Duddy at STA is also known to have dated multiple players in his years.
                    When you say kids it is < 18. I assume that admin should delete this thread and gather evidence on who is making baseless accusations.

                    Making an accusation is probably more criminal than marrying an adult.

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                      #11
                      Originally posted by Unregistered View Post
                      When you say kids it is < 18. I assume that admin should delete this thread and gather evidence on who is making baseless accusations.

                      Making an accusation is probably more criminal than marrying an adult.
                      Why no one bats an eyelash over a certain coach getting drunk in front of his players is beyond me. Let's worry about got soccer points and bashing other clubs/teams. You all have your priorities all out of wack.

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                        #12
                        Originally posted by Unregistered View Post
                        Why no one bats an eyelash over a certain coach getting drunk in front of his players is beyond me. Let's worry about got soccer points and bashing other clubs/teams. You all have your priorities all out of wack.
                        So you spent the morning writing about a drunk coach on every thread. Take some of that energy and use it elsewhere. Parents doing care of the coach is drinking with them at tournaments if it doesn’t effect their kids game. Parents don’t care if a coach marries their player if she/he is over 18. No matter how many times you write, people don’t care.

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                          #13
                          Originally posted by Unregistered View Post
                          Why no one bats an eyelash over a certain coach getting drunk in front of his players is beyond me. Let's worry about got soccer points and bashing other clubs/teams. You all have your priorities all out of wack.
                          Is it illegal? Is it on the field or training ground?

                          If it is illegal, please report it to the police and not to an anonymous board.

                          If its not:
                          - stay away if this behavior does not meet your norms
                          - you probably need to talk to your therapist
                          - anonymize and hide your internet tracks because you are close to defamation

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                            #14
                            Originally posted by Unregistered View Post
                            Is it illegal? Is it on the field or training ground?

                            If it is illegal, please report it to the police and not to an anonymous board.

                            If its not:
                            - stay away if this behavior does not meet your norms
                            - you probably need to talk to your therapist
                            - anonymize and hide your internet tracks because you are close to defamation
                            Lol, Tetro is being investigated by the division of child services after the received several complaints about his behavior on and off the fields. All you parents that defend his actions should have your kids taking away from you.

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                              #15
                              Originally posted by Unregistered View Post
                              When you say kids it is < 18. I assume that admin should delete this thread and gather evidence on who is making baseless accusations.

                              Making an accusation is probably more criminal than marrying an adult.
                              yes this is a sordid anonymous forum with many personal grievances, so don't take accusations like this seriously

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