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    Here is an email the president of Braintree’s travel soccer league sent out today. Basil you saying pat for your local club because your kid has no shot to play in college.

    BYS Families,

    I wanted to thank all our players and families for the great Spring season! I certainly hope all of you enjoyed yourselves and are either signing up or already signed up for our Fall recreational program. It’s always been a favorite of my kids, where they get to play with and against their friends!

    Around this time of year, I am often approached and asked about club soccer. I wanted to pass on some information about club and the opportunities it presents. There are a few things I think you should consider when looking for a club. First is the coach. Second, location. Third is commitment. Lastly, cost.

    When looking at a club, ask to speak to the person who will be coaching your son/daughter. Is s/he a good fit for your child? Does your child respond better to a firm hand? If yes, Mr. Easy may not be the right coach. If your child responds better to someone who is more nurturing, they may not respond to a yeller. Interview the coach as if you are hiring him, because you are. What are his/her credentials? What is their philosophy on developing players? What do they think about winning games? The kids like to win, I get that. But playing soccer the right way, takes time. You need to build foot skills and technical ability first, then introduce tactical concepts when they are developed enough mentally to understand them. Winning isn’t everything, which is why US Youth Soccer doesn’t allow us to even keep scores until U12. Don’t worry about the wins, worry about whether or not your child is being challenged appropriately to develop to his/her best ability.

    Location. Consider that when looking at clubs. There are several strong options in town (https://commonwealthfc.com/) or in neighboring towns (https://www.masscityfc.com/, https://www.americafcunited.com/). You don’t need to travel far to find good options.

    Along with location is commitment. Club soccer is a commitment by the player AND the family. Is the child ready, willing and able to commit to going to the training sessions? Moreover, these kids aren’t driving themselves to the multiple training sessions a week. Parents are juggling getting them to/from practice, often after work, while juggling their many other commitments. Do you really want to drive to Taunton, twice a week, for training after work? Maybe, but that can get old. Also, are you required to travel with the club and if yes, how far? I know some teams who have away games in Pennsylvania.

    The final factor I’ll raise is cost. Some clubs will cost over $3,500 while others are a fraction of that. I can tell you that over my years of coaching, I have seen many players pay top dollar to a club that promised them the world, only to come back to a local club where they aren’t paying to travel half the season for away games. Is the coach or competition worth the money? If your child is the best player, by far, then maybe. The best player graduating this year isn’t a D1 candidate. We may have 1 or 2 players in the program that even have the potential, but likely won’t. A few may play D2 or D3. Most kids won’t get to play in college. It’s just the reality of things as kids in warmer weather climates like Florida and California will have a leg up on them due to being able to play year round. Understand that you’re not making an investment as much as you are giving your child the chance to play a game, at a competitive level, while developing their skills and love for the game. If they get a few bucks to play in college, that’s icing on the cake.

    Mark R. Smith

    #2
    Originally posted by Unregistered View Post
    Here is an email the president of Braintree’s travel soccer league sent out today. Basil you saying pat for your local club because your kid has no shot to play in college.

    BYS Families,

    I wanted to thank all our players and families for the great Spring season! I certainly hope all of you enjoyed yourselves and are either signing up or already signed up for our Fall recreational program. It’s always been a favorite of my kids, where they get to play with and against their friends!

    Around this time of year, I am often approached and asked about club soccer. I wanted to pass on some information about club and the opportunities it presents. There are a few things I think you should consider when looking for a club. First is the coach. Second, location. Third is commitment. Lastly, cost.

    When looking at a club, ask to speak to the person who will be coaching your son/daughter. Is s/he a good fit for your child? Does your child respond better to a firm hand? If yes, Mr. Easy may not be the right coach. If your child responds better to someone who is more nurturing, they may not respond to a yeller. Interview the coach as if you are hiring him, because you are. What are his/her credentials? What is their philosophy on developing players? What do they think about winning games? The kids like to win, I get that. But playing soccer the right way, takes time. You need to build foot skills and technical ability first, then introduce tactical concepts when they are developed enough mentally to understand them. Winning isn’t everything, which is why US Youth Soccer doesn’t allow us to even keep scores until U12. Don’t worry about the wins, worry about whether or not your child is being challenged appropriately to develop to his/her best ability.

    Location. Consider that when looking at clubs. There are several strong options in town (https://commonwealthfc.com/) or in neighboring towns (https://www.masscityfc.com/, https://www.americafcunited.com/). You don’t need to travel far to find good options.

    Along with location is commitment. Club soccer is a commitment by the player AND the family. Is the child ready, willing and able to commit to going to the training sessions? Moreover, these kids aren’t driving themselves to the multiple training sessions a week. Parents are juggling getting them to/from practice, often after work, while juggling their many other commitments. Do you really want to drive to Taunton, twice a week, for training after work? Maybe, but that can get old. Also, are you required to travel with the club and if yes, how far? I know some teams who have away games in Pennsylvania.

    The final factor I’ll raise is cost. Some clubs will cost over $3,500 while others are a fraction of that. I can tell you that over my years of coaching, I have seen many players pay top dollar to a club that promised them the world, only to come back to a local club where they aren’t paying to travel half the season for away games. Is the coach or competition worth the money? If your child is the best player, by far, then maybe. The best player graduating this year isn’t a D1 candidate. We may have 1 or 2 players in the program that even have the potential, but likely won’t. A few may play D2 or D3. Most kids won’t get to play in college. It’s just the reality of things as kids in warmer weather climates like Florida and California will have a leg up on them due to being able to play year round. Understand that you’re not making an investment as much as you are giving your child the chance to play a game, at a competitive level, while developing their skills and love for the game. If they get a few bucks to play in college, that’s icing on the cake.

    Mark R. Smith
    Actually Mark u are wrong. South shore select costs $4500+ for just tuition per year. If he sends a longgg email at least get the facts right!

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      #3
      Wow.

      On NE Soccer Journal I see 187 Class fo 2021 girls committed to play in college and 277 Class of 2021 boys. Want to guess how many of those play for Commonwealth, Mass City or American FC?

      I understand the likely intent behind the email but probably could have been a bit less fatalistic.

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        #4
        Originally posted by Unregistered View Post
        I know some teams who have away games in Pennsylvania.
        And this info is also outdated. ECNL travelled to PA for league games up until last year before they split the Northeast into two conferences.

        Though Select and NEFC traveling to Empire United next year is probably worse than PA so maybe he has a point.

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          #5
          Wow just cuz your kids didn’t make it you say your program is crap and don’t waste your $$

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            #6
            Originally posted by Unregistered View Post
            Wow just cuz your kids didn’t make it you say your program is crap and don’t waste your $$
            Such a stupid comment. When it’s your kids turn and they don’t make it you’ll understand what he said isn’t wrong.

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              #7
              Originally posted by Unregistered View Post
              Such a stupid comment. When it’s your kids turn and they don’t make it you’ll understand what he said isn’t wrong.
              So your kid couldn’t make it

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                #8
                Originally posted by Unregistered View Post
                Such a stupid comment. When it’s your kids turn and they don’t make it you’ll understand what he said isn’t wrong.
                My kid left “town” soccer at U10 and is playing at a D1 school. This Braintree guy is a dream killer.

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                  #9
                  Originally posted by Unregistered View Post
                  My kid left “town” soccer at U10 and is playing at a D1 school. This Braintree guy is a dream killer.
                  Advising parents to think carefully about the club "dream" isn't "dream killing." It's being realistic.

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                    #10
                    Originally posted by Unregistered View Post
                    Advising parents to think carefully about the club "dream" isn't "dream killing." It's being realistic.
                    There are club teams that have every graduating player committed.

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                      #11
                      Originally posted by Unregistered View Post
                      There are club teams that have every graduating player committed.
                      Not at Braintree Youth Soccer.

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                        #12
                        Originally posted by Unregistered View Post
                        Advising parents to think carefully about the club "dream" isn't "dream killing." It's being realistic.
                        Carries right through Braintree High where the coach hates “high level” clubs and can barely go 500

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                          #13
                          This is why mine stopped town in elementary school

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                            #14
                            What licenses, credentials does the Azzhat President have to decided on coaches / clubs etc. what a loser.

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                              #15
                              Any poster that has to throw names around is not worth reading. The coach had courage to leave his name, unlike you. That’s because he wrote his feelings in an honest way.

                              My daughter played club this season. She does not put in the effort, never works on skills outside of two practices, has glaring weaknesses that don’t seem to improve, and I told her I am not paying for club soccer anymore. Club coaching is not making much of a difference. I don’t feel that she improved much at all. She can compete for the high school team. Unless she change SC her desire and motivation for the game, college soccer is not in the cards.

                              The OP is telling it straight. Club soccer is for higher level players.


                              Originally posted by Unregistered View Post
                              What licenses, credentials does the Azzhat President have to decided on coaches / clubs etc. what a loser.

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