So what?
So is the point you are running your child through a meat grinder so they can be turned into some product and sold to a D1 school. Everyone should line up like sheep to have the same done to them, and if they don't they don't match up?
Sorry, but that is a pretty myopic view, and to have a kid that pigeonholed by 16 or 18, is actually pretty sad for them. The reason it has gotten this way is we as parents have allowed the "academies" and the "alliances" and the "odp/whatevers" to sell us this myth that Tommy or Julie will only measure up if they are in this super elite program.
If your KID wants to commit to the trainings and travel and everything else, support them and let them go for it, but if they are doing it because you are living your dream through them, be very careful.
Before all the mud flies, and I am told how my kids "didn't make it", "blah, blah,blah". let me explain that my kids both played at the very top level available in Oregon, THEY chose not to go to the academy level because they were focused on school, and having a life with friends etc...They still play, and could play on any of these super-teams.
Bottom line is make sure your kid is the one driving the decisions.
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Sorry, but that is a pretty myopic view, and to have a kid that pigeonholed by 16 or 18, is actually pretty sad for them. The reason it has gotten this way is we as parents have allowed the "academies" and the "alliances" and the "odp/whatevers" to sell us this myth that Tommy or Julie will only measure up if they are in this super elite program.
If your KID wants to commit to the trainings and travel and everything else, support them and let them go for it, but if they are doing it because you are living your dream through them, be very careful.
Before all the mud flies, and I am told how my kids "didn't make it", "blah, blah,blah". let me explain that my kids both played at the very top level available in Oregon, THEY chose not to go to the academy level because they were focused on school, and having a life with friends etc...They still play, and could play on any of these super-teams.
Bottom line is make sure your kid is the one driving the decisions.
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