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Originally posted by Unregistered View PostYou're a sucker then. There's no reason you should have to make those sacrifices so you can fly across country to play soccer when proper scheduling/planning by the league could eliminate that
We WANT to do it. Sure, I'd love to spend a week in Tahiti, and if I sacrificed a lot, and I mean A LOT, we could.
So, no reason other than it's fun spending time together, being involved in the beautiful game, and seeing the country.
What is possibly wrong with that?
Hell, I'd rather watch a few games and spend time in the Rockies than sit on a beach anyway.
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Originally posted by Unregistered View PostReally don’t see why you have this all this vitriol
..... disingenuous? Lose credibility ?
Are you ok? It seems your kinda bent
I can buy a Ferrari but choose not to...
I can afford a home in Sands Point but live in Bayside....
I can eat at Lugers every night but I choose not too
But i feel they are too EXPENSIVE even though I can afford them. Same as the Soccer
Soccer might come first in your priorities , but it really seems your one of the Soccer “sheep” parents who hit the Kool Aid hard
All of these sports today have become glorified babysitting which you pay for.
Your just the one of the loser parents that most stay away from. Always pushing your views on everyone... can’t stand them
No vitriol, no anger, that's actually coming at me. I've said every time everyone do what that want and can with what they have. But, and I am clear on this, some people say they cannot afford it, while booking their vacation for somewhere else. That's fine, but what it shows is they CAN afford it, but don't WANT to.
That's their decision.
Side note, I stand by myself during games because too many people like yourself complain all game long about everything.
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Originally posted by Unregistered View PostYes - that is what helped her. Go with the best training and training environment. The league is nonsense. Every one of these oversold leagues has teams with good instruction and some with bad instruction.
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Originally posted by Unregistered View PostI don't HAVE to do anything. I don't even HAVE her play in the league, or even play the game at all.
We WANT to do it. Sure, I'd love to spend a week in Tahiti, and if I sacrificed a lot, and I mean A LOT, we could.
So, no reason other than it's fun spending time together, being involved in the beautiful game, and seeing the country.
What is possibly wrong with that?
Hell, I'd rather watch a few games and spend time in the Rockies than sit on a beach anyway.
It forces very good players out of the high levels of the sport entirely which does not do my player or your player any good at all.
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Originally posted by Unregistered View PostAgain great for you. having a soccer league that doubles as a vacation planner is your cup of tea. Lots of others would much prefer to be able to get the soccer part without the forced travel that you love so much.
It forces very good players out of the high levels of the sport entirely which does not do my player or your player any good at all.
Some, you (?), make a conscience decision to not enjoy it.
That's on you.
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Originally posted by Unregistered View PostI don't "love it". I accept it and make a conscience decision to enjoy it.
Some, you (?), make a conscience decision to not enjoy it.
That's on you.
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Originally posted by Unregistered View PostI don't "love it". I accept it and make a conscience decision to enjoy it.
Some, you (?), make a conscience decision to not enjoy it.
That's on you.
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Originally posted by Unregistered View PostI can appreciate that you make yourself "consciencely" like it. You seem incapable of understanding that it is a big problem for lots of us whether we play mind games with our conscience or not.
You want to vacation on a beach and use those funds, great. That's not for me, but great for you. Enjoy it.
Just don't say you CAN'T do it. That's playing mind games with your conscience.
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Originally posted by Unregistered View PostQuite the opposite. As I've said probably a dozen times, do what you wish. If I do, I'm a kool-aid drinker or sucker or whatever....
You want to vacation on a beach and use those funds, great. That's not for me, but great for you. Enjoy it.
Just don't say you CAN'T do it. That's playing mind games with your conscience.
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Originally posted by Unregistered View PostI think what he is trying to say is that either league GDA or ECNL doesnt have the best players entirely. First, they compete with each other. More importantly, the cost excludes an enormous amount of talent that simply can't afford it. If you think your kid is on the best team she absolutely could be, then you are nuts .... .she is not.
My only point has been we found a way to accept the travel by eliminating other travel, and by extension enjoying it best we can.
As for the cost excluding some people, that is true. For those who cannot do anything else, and the travel is a backbreaker, you are not in the category I am referring to. That is, sadly, an unfortunate reality of many kid's activities.
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Originally posted by Unregistered View PostI don't "love it". I accept it and make a conscience decision to enjoy it.
Some, you (?), make a conscience decision to not enjoy it.
That's on you.
Ok. This is from a parent whose kid is first year in GDA. we made a "conscious (sic)?" decision which we regret.
We don't like the travel. Missing high school days, very expensive and limiting family time including family vacation time. The GDA travel has a negative impact on all the above.
GDA travel is not a substitute for family vacation even if the entire family goes but then the other kids miss school as well. This does not even take into account the issue of not being able to play high school sports.
For kids who are potential NT and pro material, great but honestly, not for most good players and their families.
I think we will be one and done.
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Originally posted by Unregistered View PostIn only slightly more than a year ... this is the CT NYCFC guy .... he is over the top about how his kid blossomed in the last 15 months all because GDA now holds her reigns. $5 she has never played on foreign soil and her one NTC invite didnt go well (if she goe one at all). Big talker, totally enamored with GDA.
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