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    #31
    Respect is earned

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      #32
      Originally posted by Unregistered View Post
      Here's an awful situation - Senior's Night in H.S. soccer sans seniors. Yes agree H.S. is a disaster but moving past that - Senior's Night where H.S. coach doesn't change his starting line up or formation (plays same number/names of senior starters since first game of the season) and subs out with juniors, sophomores, and even a freshman but no seniors from the first minute till nearly the bitter end. Isn't till 5 minutes and 2 minutes left in game - he subs in remaining 9 bench players who are seniors (all 4 year veterans of the program). Oh and team had a lead of 2-0 into the half and 3-0 into last 20 minutes. And the game was meaningless for seeding and conference finals. Full disclosure, my kid is neither a senior or a starter, and I get coaching is not for the faint of heart - parents are a pain, teachers a pain, ADs and students are a pain, but some times there are self-inflected wounds. Come on man!
      It seems hard to believe unless new coach. No need to endear himself to players that won't be around next year. However any decent team will have a backbone of 4-5 seniors that play every minute

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        #33
        Originally posted by Unregistered View Post
        It seems hard to believe unless new coach. No need to endear himself to players that won't be around next year. However any decent team will have a backbone of 4-5 seniors that play every minute
        had the same type of thing at our HS for boys team - felt awful for the kids involved.

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          #34
          Originally posted by Unregistered View Post
          It seems hard to believe unless new coach. No need to endear himself to players that won't be around next year. However any decent team will have a backbone of 4-5 seniors that play every minute
          No way. Our seniors are lazy. This is merit based

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            #35
            Originally posted by Unregistered View Post
            Here's an awful situation - Senior's Night in H.S. soccer sans seniors. Yes agree H.S. is a disaster but moving past that - Senior's Night where H.S. coach doesn't change his starting line up or formation (plays same number/names of senior starters since first game of the season) and subs out with juniors, sophomores, and even a freshman but no seniors from the first minute till nearly the bitter end. Isn't till 5 minutes and 2 minutes left in game - he subs in remaining 9 bench players who are seniors (all 4 year veterans of the program). Oh and team had a lead of 2-0 into the half and 3-0 into last 20 minutes. And the game was meaningless for seeding and conference finals. Full disclosure, my kid is neither a senior or a starter, and I get coaching is not for the faint of heart - parents are a pain, teachers a pain, ADs and students are a pain, but some times there are self-inflected wounds. Come on man!
            Never understood Senior Night. Shouldn’t you just play players that you feel have earned the right to play. Who cares if they are a senior. Makes no sense. Just play your best players.

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              #36
              Originally posted by Unregistered View Post
              Never understood Senior Night. Shouldn’t you just play players that you feel have earned the right to play. Who cares if they are a senior. Makes no sense. Just play your best players.
              Because you're thanking kids who have given four years of sweat equity to the team. Doesn't matter if they're the studs or not. They've put in the time and effort. Our teams always pick easy opponent games for senior night to insure all the seniors can get some decent PT. The kids really look forward to it and the games have a decent showing in the stands vs a regular season game. Taking that away from kids is a real dik move

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                #37
                Originally posted by Unregistered View Post
                Never understood Senior Night. Shouldn’t you just play players that you feel have earned the right to play. Who cares if they are a senior. Makes no sense. Just play your best players.
                I agree. We have kid's that are captains that NEVER play, but they weren't running telephone poles during summer or working on their technical game or even playing at all. It's time we cut thru all this PC crap and reward the kids that actually did the work to prepare for the season and play year round.

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                  #38
                  Originally posted by Unregistered View Post
                  Because you're thanking kids who have given four years of sweat equity to the team. Doesn't matter if they're the studs or not. They've put in the time and effort. Our teams always pick easy opponent games for senior night to insure all the seniors can get some decent PT. The kids really look forward to it and the games have a decent showing in the stands vs a regular season game. Taking that away from kids is a real dik move
                  listen, if your kid is a senior and they stink, they haven't prepared. Why reward mediocrity. Oh wait, because they show up in late August and play for two months -- that's sweat equity? Time to move forward on that. What effort have they really put in?

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                    #39
                    Money

                    The reason coaches are being jumped these days is because of the culture...what it has become. When I was a kid, to play a full season of baseball it cost my parents $17 plus an additional $10 for one uniform we wore. Our coach was a parent, not paid, and we respected him, and never challenged him or hesitated when he said run or slide.

                    In contrast, parents today are being told the reason they're having to pay $2k a season for kickball is because of coaching fees and misc. But it doesn't end there. Mega DA and ECNL clubs have their uniform contracts, every 2 years were dumping $500 on 5 different shirts, 2 different shorts, 3 different socks. Then there's the tournament fees, coach's travel fees, and your travel, hotel expenses. At the end of a soccer season you're looking at almost $4k in expenses...and you suddenly realize your league is poaching kids from California to take your kid's position at ECNL nationals.

                    This is what we have these days. And when coaches, leagues don't deliver, parents get angry.

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                      #40
                      Originally posted by Unregistered View Post
                      Because you're thanking kids who have given four years of sweat equity to the team. Doesn't matter if they're the studs or not. They've put in the time and effort. Our teams always pick easy opponent games for senior night to insure all the seniors can get some decent PT. The kids really look forward to it and the games have a decent showing in the stands vs a regular season game. Taking that away from kids is a real dik move
                      You probably hemmed and hawed when they were sophs and juniors that they should also not be cut.

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                        #41
                        Originally posted by Unregistered View Post
                        You probably hemmed and hawed when they were sophs and juniors that they should also not be cut.

                        that's the other BIG problem. You have kids that should have been let go that are carried along and never play. Then you have a pile of seniors that are just clogging up bench. These kids should play on senior night? please

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                          #42
                          I have coached very many Senior Night games.

                          The Senior Night game is about recognizing the "sweat equity" as a previous poster called it, and for their loyalty to the program, regardless of how much or little they have played.

                          It's about a proper pre-game ceremony calling out these kids and being very positive towards their contributions.

                          You put them all on the field when the whistle blows and then, as soon as you must, you reset your lineup on the field to the one you would normally play to beat that opponent.

                          Senior Night is always much better when you actually win the game too. The Seniors that play for me understand that and they are the last ones to complain about playing time over that game. Maybe their parents don't, but the players get it.

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                            #43
                            Originally posted by Unregistered View Post
                            that's the other BIG problem. You have kids that should have been let go that are carried along and never play. Then you have a pile of seniors that are just clogging up bench. These kids should play on senior night? please

                            Every senior who makes it to this game deserves to play in it. Even if just for a few minutes. To not play a senior on Senior Night is a reprehensible action on the part of a coach.

                            A coach who can't manage a game well enough to give a deep reserved senior 5-10 minutes of playing time shouldn't be coaching at this level.

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                              #44
                              Originally posted by Unregistered View Post
                              The reason coaches are being jumped these days is because of the culture...what it has become. When I was a kid, to play a full season of baseball it cost my parents $17 plus an additional $10 for one uniform we wore. Our coach was a parent, not paid, and we respected him, and never challenged him or hesitated when he said run or slide.

                              In contrast, parents today are being told the reason they're having to pay $2k a season for kickball is because of coaching fees and misc. But it doesn't end there. Mega DA and ECNL clubs have their uniform contracts, every 2 years were dumping $500 on 5 different shirts, 2 different shorts, 3 different socks. Then there's the tournament fees, coach's travel fees, and your travel, hotel expenses. At the end of a soccer season you're looking at almost $4k in expenses...and you suddenly realize your league is poaching kids from California to take your kid's position at ECNL nationals.

                              This is what we have these days. And when coaches, leagues don't deliver, parents get angry.
                              That’s who the parents get mad at but it’s their kids who aren’t delivering that’s why they aren’t playing

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                                #45
                                Originally posted by Unregistered View Post
                                Every senior who makes it to this game deserves to play in it. Even if just for a few minutes. To not play a senior on Senior Night is a reprehensible action on the part of a coach.

                                A coach who can't manage a game well enough to give a deep reserved senior 5-10 minutes of playing time shouldn't be coaching at this level.
                                You obviously play chumps on senior night
                                What if it’s a game you need? Are you willing to give up a goal?

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