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Premier Soccer is a rip off
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Originally posted by Unregistered View PostI wholeheartedly agree that the poster is right. This has become nothing more than a pay to play system. I have seen some really bad soccer at the "premier" level. I could go an a tangent but I'll save my breath because everyone here is on board with it.
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Originally posted by Unregistered View PostI've experienced bad premier but moved on quickly to good premier through trial and error.
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Originally posted by Unregistered View PostI've experienced bad premier but moved on quickly to good premier through trial and error. Regardless of that, the part of the post about winning mattering so much is where the poster jumped the shark.
FWIW kids should only be rostered on a travel team OR a premier team. This would help with a lot of the nonsense going on. It seems the new world order is chasing travel state cups with a team made mostly of premier players. So stupid.
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Originally posted by Unregistered View PostWinning never matters in soccer until "that day" when magically games count. Gimme a break, kids care and there should be some value to achievement. There also should be consequence when bested by an opponent. I don't think the poster was insinuating that winning is everything either.
FWIW kids should only be rostered on a travel team OR a premier team. This would help with a lot of the nonsense going on. It seems the new world order is chasing travel state cups with a team made mostly of premier players. So stupid.
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Originally posted by Unregistered View PostWinning never matters in soccer until "that day" when magically games count. Gimme a break, kids care and there should be some value to achievement. There also should be consequence when bested by an opponent. I don't think the poster was insinuating that winning is everything either.
FWIW kids should only be rostered on a travel team OR a premier team. This would help with a lot of the nonsense going on. It seems the new world order is chasing travel state cups with a team made mostly of premier players. So stupid.
An hour after the game the win or loss is all but forgotten with my kids. So does it make sense to try and go for the win by keeping the same 7/9/11 starters out there most of the game and sending the ball down the field to the big fast kid at every opportunity to win games or should one put wins on the backburner in favor of developing the whole team and getting kids to try new things on the ball? And maybe lose a game or 10 in the process.
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Obviously development matters more. However kids still want to win and depending on their age and experience,they can't always see the forest through the trees. Having some losses normally isn't an issue with most kids, especially if they see 1) the other team was clearly better 2) they know they did their best. Even my oldest who HATES losing is over it 20 minutes later (unless she made a mistake and then she stews over her performance).
But psychologically it isn't easy to keep up the enthusiasm if you lose week after week.
winning and development also don't have to be mutually exclusive either. But too many parents see a winning record as proof of development. If a team is doing poorly they feel the need to look elsewhere. Many have never played the sport and can't tell good coaching from bad.
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Originally posted by Unregistered View PostI have no issue with younger kids doing a year or two at the most so they can have time to figure out where they fit in the world. Most leave by U13 either because of time, money (or both) as well as if they're serious about soccer they see their town teammates don't have the same dedication.
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Originally posted by Unregistered View PostI strongly disagree. My kids play at the big three clubs and even my older ones still love playing travel. It's just plain fun! They understand that the soccer isn't very good but they are playing with their friends from town (and school), they can work on stupid tricks or moves that they would never try in a premier game (until they perfect it), and they can play multiple positions that they normally do not play in club. More than anything, it is just an extra game or two each weekend and an extra practice every now and again. Especially for younger players, adding an extra practice every week (and game or two) is just more fun for them. They just love it. My wife and I often insist they take a night off just to hang out and do nothing, but none of my kids ever want to. They just love the game and their teams (team mates) from travel and club. I honestly think that they all look at every practice and game as another play date to hang out and compete with their friends. There is nothing more rewarding that seeing your kids love something so much that they do not want to miss any of it. The club soccer sometimes does get to be a grind towards the end of a season but I think the travel soccer really helps them (and my wife and I) to keep this in the context that it has to be fun first or else it simply isn't worth it. I know everyone on TS is really gung-ho about college and the madness of making this team or not, but we have really worked hard to separate ourselves from the crazies on each of our kids teams (and we find the parents in the rat race for our youngest (U10) very comical now .... moreso than the older ones even). Keep it all in check people, let your kids have fun; it does not last long.
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Originally posted by Unregistered View PostYour kid just likes being the big fish in the small pond. You probably do too.
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Originally posted by Unregistered View PostVery likely. And in all seriousness, how do you have time for "an extra game or two" on the weekends for your older kids on the big 3 clubs? Not possible.
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Originally posted by Unregistered View PostVery likely. And in all seriousness, how do you have time for "an extra game or two" on the weekends for your older kids on the big 3 clubs? Not possible.
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Originally posted by Unregistered View PostYeah, not so much. Games and practices are minutes from our house. We come home from early games in MA or NY/NJ and can make 4-6 PM kickoffs at times. Sorry your kid has too much on their plate and can't find time to play with their friends for fun. They must hate the grind and job their current team is dishing out on them. Why can't it just be fun sometimes? If it's not and they don't want to find extra times to play then they probably don't love it as much as you pretend and force them to. I guess they will play wherever and whenever you pay for them to do it, eh?
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