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    Originally posted by Unregistered View Post
    It’s been long known that he is a bully, verbally abusive, liar, plagiarist. He has enablers. People who believe he can get their daughter a scholly. Sad. Really, really sad.
    https://www.momsteam.com/emotional-a...neglect-sports

    Abuse in youth sports can take several forms, but all involve a power imbalance, usually the power of the coach or a parent over the athlete.

    The following information should help you identify the different forms abuse or neglect can take, though it is not a complete list of behaviors that are considered abuse and neglect:

    Emotional Abuse
    Name calling
    Insulting
    Shouting
    Belittling
    Threatening
    Humiliating
    Scapegoating
    Ignoring
    Rejecting
    Bullying
    Taunting
    Shunning
    Isolating
    Physical Abuse
    Slapping
    Hitting
    Shaking
    Throwing equipment at or near a player
    Kicking
    Pulling hair or ears
    Striking
    Shoving
    Grabbing
    Hazing
    Punishing "poor" play or rule violations through the use of excessive exercise or by denying fluids
    Sexual Abuse
    Requesting sexual acts
    Indecent exposure
    Fondling genitals
    Penetration
    Rape
    Incest
    Sodomy
    Sexual exploitation (prostitution)
    Exposure to or creation of pornographic materials
    Neglect in sports
    Improperly treating injuries and forcing injured athletes to play
    Inadequate equipment
    Lack of supervision during overnight trips
    Allowing bullying or hazing by teammates
    Key points to remember:
    Different types of abuse often occur at the same time; for example, while physically or sexually abusing a child, an adult often emotionally abuses them as well
    Both boys and girls can be victims of abuse and neglect, including sexual abuse, and both male and female coaches can be perpetrators.
    There are no excuses for abusing or neglecting a child.
    Abuse and neglect are NEVER the child's fault.
    We urge you to discuss this information with your child in an age-appropriate way so that they are aware of what counts as inappropriate treatment.

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      Originally posted by Unregistered View Post
      https://www.momsteam.com/emotional-a...neglect-sports

      Abuse in youth sports can take several forms, but all involve a power imbalance, usually the power of the coach or a parent over the athlete.

      The following information should help you identify the different forms abuse or neglect can take, though it is not a complete list of behaviors that are considered abuse and neglect:

      Emotional Abuse
      Name calling
      Insulting
      Shouting
      Belittling
      Threatening
      Humiliating
      Scapegoating
      Ignoring
      Rejecting
      Bullying
      Taunting
      Shunning
      Isolating
      Physical Abuse
      Slapping
      Hitting
      Shaking
      Throwing equipment at or near a player
      Kicking
      Pulling hair or ears
      Striking
      Shoving
      Grabbing
      Hazing
      Punishing "poor" play or rule violations through the use of excessive exercise or by denying fluids
      Sexual Abuse
      Requesting sexual acts
      Indecent exposure
      Fondling genitals
      Penetration
      Rape
      Incest
      Sodomy
      Sexual exploitation (prostitution)
      Exposure to or creation of pornographic materials
      Neglect in sports
      Improperly treating injuries and forcing injured athletes to play
      Inadequate equipment
      Lack of supervision during overnight trips
      Allowing bullying or hazing by teammates
      Key points to remember:
      Different types of abuse often occur at the same time; for example, while physically or sexually abusing a child, an adult often emotionally abuses them as well
      Both boys and girls can be victims of abuse and neglect, including sexual abuse, and both male and female coaches can be perpetrators.
      There are no excuses for abusing or neglecting a child.
      Abuse and neglect are NEVER the child's fault.
      We urge you to discuss this information with your child in an age-appropriate way so that they are aware of what counts as inappropriate treatment.
      Wow. Never thought of it like that. Pertinent.

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        Originally posted by Unregistered View Post
        Wow. Never thought of it like that. Pertinent.
        This is insanity. Where are the moderators? I wonder what it takes to obtain a list of IP addresses. Although the poster didn't make direct accusations, this seems to be an attempt to proliferate a story that started as a hypothetical, twist that story into an accusation of shunning, then equate it with sexual assault.

        Why can't this site force people to actually register before posting? Or at least show which posts are individuals responding to themselves?

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          Originally posted by Unregistered View Post
          This is insanity. Where are the moderators? I wonder what it takes to obtain a list of IP addresses. Although the poster didn't make direct accusations, this seems to be an attempt to proliferate a story that started as a hypothetical, twist that story into an accusation of shunning, then equate it with sexual assault.

          Why can't this site force people to actually register before posting? Or at least show which posts are individuals responding to themselves?
          Nobody accused anybody of sexual assault.

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            Originally posted by Unregistered View Post
            Nobody accused anybody of sexual assault.
            And the post before yours predicted your response. The implication is glaringly obvious. Hypothetical situation, pin it on someone, compare this to something horrible. Do so anonymously.

            https://minnesota.cbslocal.com/2014/...mments-online/

            A communications professor at the University of Houston studying the issue*found anonymity contributes to less civil discourse.*He looked at online comments in newspapers for more than a year and half and found 53 percent of comments were uncivil in papers that allowed anonymity. That percentage dropped to 29 percent when newspapers required names or links to Facebook accounts.

            Though she says it’s hard to study, Thiel-Stern believes anonymous online posters are generally a small group with a loud voice.

            “We just don’t know,” she said.

            That research difficulty was acknowledged in*a 2013 study*that found writing and reading online rants was unhealthy and the people that do it are generally angrier.

            “It’s just people trying to get a rise out of folks, trying to get other trolls to come out and hijack a conversation,” said Sam McConnell of Minneapolis.

            Thiel-Stern says anonymity makes it easier for some people to post things they normally might not.

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              Originally posted by Unregistered View Post
              Nobody accused anybody of sexual assault.
              The obvious jealousy on here is comical. Why post anything negative about someone unless you're envious or jealous? If you're a better coach, club director, trainer, etc. then you don't have to worry. The fact that people continue to criticize anonymously just continues to show the jealousy that exits.

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                Originally posted by Unregistered View Post
                The obvious jealousy on here is comical. Why post anything negative about someone unless you're envious or jealous? If you're a better coach, club director, trainer, etc. then you don't have to worry. The fact that people continue to criticize anonymously just continues to show the jealousy that exits.
                Jealous of what?

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                  You are jealous of success. There is a reason why you are on here crying about other people’s choices when your a walking failure story.

                  Keep making up stuff and crying about other people. Maybe if you focused on yourself you wouldn’t be stuck on here crying about winners.

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                      Originally posted by Unregistered View Post
                      You are jealous of success. There is a reason why you are on here crying about other people’s choices when your a walking failure story.

                      Keep making up stuff and crying about other people. Maybe if you focused on yourself you wouldn’t be stuck on here crying about winners.
                      Define success. How many teams does this club have? Any coaching awards?

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                        Oregon United FC has won nothing. Hillsboro soccer club apparently won a state cup last year with MJ as coach, but that trophy belongs to HSC. Plus that team shat the bed at regionals. Too much dilution in 03g for Oregon to have a truly competitive team.

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                          Originally posted by Unregistered View Post
                          Oregon United FC has won nothing. Hillsboro soccer club apparently won a state cup last year with MJ as coach, but that trophy belongs to HSC. Plus that team shat the bed at regionals. Too much dilution in 03g for Oregon to have a truly competitive team.
                          I see the clown show has returned.

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                            Originally posted by Unregistered View Post
                            I see the clown show has returned.
                            Hillsboro got sick of their act so they are now OUFC.

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                              Originally posted by Unregistered View Post
                              Hillsboro got sick of their act so they are now OUFC.
                              No they are now La Amistad. Ramon runs the show.

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                                Originally posted by Unregistered View Post
                                No they are now La Amistad. Ramon runs the show.
                                How long will it last with La Amistad? Over/Under is 18 months.

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