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CFC does the same. My kid’s coach definitely has his chosen few.

I can’t stand OW, but I agree. This is literally every club.

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I can’t stand OW, but I agree. This is literally every club.

Do you believe your boss has his chosen few too? Life is unfair? Must be a tough way to go through life, never holding yourself accountable and always blaming others for your inadequacies.

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Do you believe your boss has his chosen few too? Life is unfair? Must be a tough way to go through life, never holding yourself accountable and always blaming others for your inadequacies.

No, life isn’t fair... Only difference here is that parents are paying for a product vs getting paid to pay for said product.

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Do you believe your boss has his chosen few too? Life is unfair? Must be a tough way to go through life, never holding yourself accountable and always blaming others for your inadequacies.

You are an idiot. Especially at ulittle when the OW coaches ignore the many for the few it is not because of the kids inadequacies. It is the exact opposite. It is the inadequacy of the OW coach to do their job correctly. They are getting paid to develop and choose not to for certain kids. It is 100% the coaches fault. At older ages it is a different situation.

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You are an idiot. Especially at ulittle when the OW coaches ignore the many for the few it is not because of the kids inadequacies. It is the exact opposite. It is the inadequacy of the OW coach to do their job correctly. They are getting paid to develop and choose not to for certain kids. It is 100% the coaches fault. At older ages it is a different situation.

Not different at older ages. If you are paying for something you expect something in return. If a kid is not good enough, do not take him into the team.

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No, life isn’t fair... Only difference here is that parents are paying for a product vs getting paid to pay for said product.

There really isn’t a difference. Your boss pays you to do a job that you do poorly.

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There really isn’t a difference. Your boss pays you to do a job that you do poorly.

Wow, you must of headed the ball way too many times. The kid isn't the one getting paid. It is the coach getting paid and they are the one doing a piss-poor job.

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There really isn’t a difference. Your boss pays you to do a job that you do poorly.

You must be looking in the mirror.

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There really isn’t a difference. Your boss pays you to do a job that you do poorly.

Here is a good analogy for you retard. You are a good high school soccer player but you are failing everything because you headed the ball too much at ulittle and are kind of mentally slow and stupid. You need to get a better SAT score or that college soccer dream is toast.

You hire a tutor and they think you are dumb so they take your money, ignore you at the tutoring session and just help the customers they think are smart.

When you complain they make the comment that its just like your dumb parents that are bad at their job and their boss ignores them for other workers. To you this makes total sense because you are stupid but everyone else is left going, what?

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How about the oakwood boys coaches? Mostly favorable reviews?

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CFC does the same. My kid’s coach definitely has his chosen few.

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And what makes them the "chosen few"?

Do you know the criteria the coach uses to put a kid in this group?

Having a chosen few is not an issue, since it normally reflects which players the coach trusts. What creates that trust? What matters is the criteria needed to be in the "chosen few". If it is about commitment, work ethic, intensity, individual focus on improvement and similar attributes, then it seems a deserved place to be for those earning the distinction.

Are you implying it's for other reasons?

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And what makes them the "chosen few"?

Do you know the criteria the coach uses to put a kid in this group?

Having a chosen few is not an issue, since it normally reflects which players the coach trusts. What creates that trust? What matters is the criteria needed to be in the "chosen few". If it is about commitment, work ethic, intensity, individual focus on improvement and similar attributes, then it seems a deserved place to be for those earning the distinction.

Are you implying it's for other reasons?

lmao, that is a good one. It is totally for other reasons. Kids that show up to every practice and give 100% effort are not the ones that are rewarded. The parents showing up kissing the coaches ass and making side deals, well now that is another story and one that is nearer to the truth.

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And what makes them the "chosen few"?

Do you know the criteria the coach uses to put a kid in this group?



No I don't know the criteria and that is the big issue. OW coaches talk a good game and tell the kids it is for work ethic, attitude, intensity etc., but they are full of ****. And the kids are not stupid, they know it.

The OW coaches routinely contradict themselves. Their chosen ones are the middle of the pack when it comes to work ethic, intensity, showing up for practice and having a positive attitude. They can get away with it and they know it so they do.

If you think it is anything else then your head is in the sand and you do not see what is really going on there. The chosen few should be held to a higher standard but they are held to a lower one. And that is the shame of it.

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And what makes them the "chosen few"?

Do you know the criteria the coach uses to put a kid in this group?



No I don't know the criteria and that is the big issue. OW coaches talk a good game and tell the kids it is for work ethic, attitude, intensity etc., but they are full of ****. And the kids are not stupid, they know it.

The OW coaches routinely contradict themselves. Their chosen ones are the middle of the pack when it comes to work ethic, intensity, showing up for practice and having a positive attitude. They can get away with it and they know it so they do.

If you think it is anything else then your head is in the sand and you do not see what is really going on there. The chosen few should be held to a higher standard but they are held to a lower one. And that is the shame of it.

This happens EVERYWHERE. CFC, FSA, Beachside etc.

Every coach has chosen players and each have a criteria for it. If you are not a “chosen one” with your coach, nothing you do will change that. Wait out a coaching change or change clubs.

We would love to believe that hard work, showing up, playing well, etc. can change this but it can’t.

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This happens EVERYWHERE. CFC, FSA, Beachside etc.

Every coach has chosen players and each have a criteria for it. If you are not a “chosen one” with your coach, nothing you do will change that. Wait out a coaching change or change clubs.

We would love to believe that hard work, showing up, playing well, etc. can change this but it can’t.

I totally agree. And then everyone wonders why our MNT sucks.