My girl was in the same situation in that she was a good player who switched teams and was not performing as well as she could've with her new team. For her it came down to 3 things. She was afraid to fail in front of her new team, even in training. Her comfort level with the other girls wasn't there as she just didn't know them and didn't have friendships with them. Her skills needed to improve in certain areas as well so that she could be more confident in trying to do certain things on the field.
There was no magic bullet but a few things in combination helped. First, encouraging them and recognizing the good plays they make is important. Try to avoid too much negative feedback as that's not going to boost confidence. Next, it may take more time for him to feel part of the team/develop friendships with players on the team. Do whatever you can to help him develop friendships with his teammates by going out to eat after games with kids he gets along with, or getting together outside of team related activities. Just having friends on the team will give him more confidence and make him like soccer more. Finally, if there are individual skill areas that he needs to work on to get the confidence he needs to use these skills, have him work on them outside of team activities.
There was no magic bullet but a few things in combination helped. First, encouraging them and recognizing the good plays they make is important. Try to avoid too much negative feedback as that's not going to boost confidence. Next, it may take more time for him to feel part of the team/develop friendships with players on the team. Do whatever you can to help him develop friendships with his teammates by going out to eat after games with kids he gets along with, or getting together outside of team related activities. Just having friends on the team will give him more confidence and make him like soccer more. Finally, if there are individual skill areas that he needs to work on to get the confidence he needs to use these skills, have him work on them outside of team activities.
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