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    RUSA Club Experiences- Sad coaches vindictive at expense of youth girls

    This was from a RUSA parent and posted to teamsnap. It wasn’t me but I experienced the same thing. Sad that these kids suffer at the hands of soccer club owners.

    In case you didn’t receive my chat:
    I had a chance to speak with Justin this afternoon. He informed me that this tournament was never meant for the black 06 team as they don’t have enough players (7 right now). When asked why black, who haven’t had a tournament all season despite playing full fees weren’t offered the opportunity to go with some gold players filling in I was informed that this was for the development of the team moving forward. I reminded him that black was pulled out of a tournament in the fall because the competition was below their level and pointed out that the upcoming tournament also had teams far below what the gold team normally plays. I received no explanation why this was now acceptable. I told Justin that from this parent’s perspective the black team was only there in the service of the gold team, to subsidize their costs as they travel to tournaments, and to play in black league games. I was assured that this was not the case and that they were in fact “interested” in developing black players. I was told that my daughter could get game time in the “scrimmages” this Sunday. I did confirm that this tournament occurs during the RUSA 2019-20 season and is included in our fees. So, despite my conversation and explanations I remain unconvinced that this B team is given any thought or consideration with regards to player development. I received no justification as to why I should pay $2000+ for 8 games while the A team plays more games AND 4-5 tournaments while also playing in our B team league games. I remain unconvinced when my daughter asks our coach how she can play wing better and is told she is doing great and he doesn’t want her to overthink it. I am disappointed with the experience and treatment at this club and especially frustrated that my daughter developed this past year on her own, in our back yard. We were promised a lot upon joining, expected less, and received less still. This lack of tournament play this weekend isn’t the final straw but is more emblematic of the treatment this team has received all year. I guess I should have expected this but like Charlie Brown running to the football, I thought this time was going to be different and the club was going to do right by our girls. We all know how this ends.

    #2
    Originally posted by Unregistered View Post
    This was from a RUSA parent and posted to teamsnap. It wasn’t me but I experienced the same thing. Sad that these kids suffer at the hands of soccer club owners.

    In case you didn’t receive my chat:
    I had a chance to speak with Justin this afternoon. He informed me that this tournament was never meant for the black 06 team as they don’t have enough players (7 right now). When asked why black, who haven’t had a tournament all season despite playing full fees weren’t offered the opportunity to go with some gold players filling in I was informed that this was for the development of the team moving forward. I reminded him that black was pulled out of a tournament in the fall because the competition was below their level and pointed out that the upcoming tournament also had teams far below what the gold team normally plays. I received no explanation why this was now acceptable. I told Justin that from this parent’s perspective the black team was only there in the service of the gold team, to subsidize their costs as they travel to tournaments, and to play in black league games. I was assured that this was not the case and that they were in fact “interested” in developing black players. I was told that my daughter could get game time in the “scrimmages” this Sunday. I did confirm that this tournament occurs during the RUSA 2019-20 season and is included in our fees. So, despite my conversation and explanations I remain unconvinced that this B team is given any thought or consideration with regards to player development. I received no justification as to why I should pay $2000+ for 8 games while the A team plays more games AND 4-5 tournaments while also playing in our B team league games. I remain unconvinced when my daughter asks our coach how she can play wing better and is told she is doing great and he doesn’t want her to overthink it. I am disappointed with the experience and treatment at this club and especially frustrated that my daughter developed this past year on her own, in our back yard. We were promised a lot upon joining, expected less, and received less still. This lack of tournament play this weekend isn’t the final straw but is more emblematic of the treatment this team has received all year. I guess I should have expected this but like Charlie Brown running to the football, I thought this time was going to be different and the club was going to do right by our girls. We all know how this ends.


    EDP website lists the 2006 Black team playing this weekend?

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      #3
      Yes as is who should be playing but given they told the RUSA Black team they are not playing in it. Then took it out of TeamSnap yesterday. Played it on EDP making an “error”. Now the girls on the team did not get a tournament in the entire year.

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        #4
        Six feet

        Here was the TeamSnap communication many hours after deleting the tournament.

        Good Evening,

        Hope this email finds everyone well, wanted to clarify a few things regarding this weekend. RUSA G06 Black will not be participating in the EDP Cup. EDP accidentally entered the wrong RUSA team, so there will not be a tournament this weekend.

        However, we do have our RUSA Friendlies this weekend where the girls will be able to compete verse other RUSA Teams. Make sure you bring both uniforms!

        If you have any questions please feel free to ask,

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          #5
          Originally posted by Unregistered View Post
          Yes as is who should be playing but given they told the RUSA Black team they are not playing in it. Then took it out of TeamSnap yesterday. Played it on EDP making an “error”. Now the girls on the team did not get a tournament in the entire year.
          That’s so wrong!

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            #6
            Originally posted by Unregistered View Post
            Here was the TeamSnap communication many hours after deleting the tournament.

            Good Evening,

            Hope this email finds everyone well, wanted to clarify a few things regarding this weekend. RUSA G06 Black will not be participating in the EDP Cup. EDP accidentally entered the wrong RUSA team, so there will not be a tournament this weekend.

            However, we do have our RUSA Friendlies this weekend where the girls will be able to compete verse other RUSA Teams. Make sure you bring both uniforms!

            If you have any questions please feel free to ask,

            That’s some BS right there

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              #7
              Originally posted by Unregistered View Post
              This was from a RUSA parent and posted to teamsnap. It wasn’t me but I experienced the same thing. Sad that these kids suffer at the hands of soccer club owners.

              In case you didn’t receive my chat:
              I had a chance to speak with Justin this afternoon. He informed me that this tournament was never meant for the black 06 team as they don’t have enough players (7 right now). When asked why black, who haven’t had a tournament all season despite playing full fees weren’t offered the opportunity to go with some gold players filling in I was informed that this was for the development of the team moving forward. I reminded him that black was pulled out of a tournament in the fall because the competition was below their level and pointed out that the upcoming tournament also had teams far below what the gold team normally plays. I received no explanation why this was now acceptable. I told Justin that from this parent’s perspective the black team was only there in the service of the gold team, to subsidize their costs as they travel to tournaments, and to play in black league games. I was assured that this was not the case and that they were in fact “interested” in developing black players. I was told that my daughter could get game time in the “scrimmages” this Sunday. I did confirm that this tournament occurs during the RUSA 2019-20 season and is included in our fees. So, despite my conversation and explanations I remain unconvinced that this B team is given any thought or consideration with regards to player development. I received no justification as to why I should pay $2000+ for 8 games while the A team plays more games AND 4-5 tournaments while also playing in our B team league games. I remain unconvinced when my daughter asks our coach how she can play wing better and is told she is doing great and he doesn’t want her to overthink it. I am disappointed with the experience and treatment at this club and especially frustrated that my daughter developed this past year on her own, in our back yard. We were promised a lot upon joining, expected less, and received less still. This lack of tournament play this weekend isn’t the final straw but is more emblematic of the treatment this team has received all year. I guess I should have expected this but like Charlie Brown running to the football, I thought this time was going to be different and the club was going to do right by our girls. We all know how this ends.
              What a disgrace, shameful behaviour!!

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                #8
                And you and the other players are still their because? RUSA has to be the lowest club in all of SJ. The tried to poach teams when they were FC Copa and I know MANY players who tried out at various age groups only to see that everyone made it so parents bolted then. They have been known to rip of coaches and looking at their younger teams have 0 in the way of development. Their is still time to get out as most clubs in the area are still having tryouts. And if you did miss them I'm sure most would welcome you to a session to tryout anyway.

                If the rest of the team is looking to leave and want to stay together there is a relatively new club in EHT that doesn't have an 06 team I'm sure you could create. D doesn't play their but the owner is a good guy.

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                  #9
                  Lolololol. Poacher.




                  Originally posted by Unregistered View Post
                  And you and the other players are still their because? RUSA has to be the lowest club in all of SJ. The tried to poach teams when they were FC Copa and I know MANY players who tried out at various age groups only to see that everyone made it so parents bolted then. They have been known to rip of coaches and looking at their younger teams have 0 in the way of development. Their is still time to get out as most clubs in the area are still having tryouts. And if you did miss them I'm sure most would welcome you to a session to tryout anyway.

                  If the rest of the team is looking to leave and want to stay together there is a relatively new club in EHT that doesn't have an 06 team I'm sure you could create. D doesn't play their but the owner is a good guy.

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                    #10
                    Originally posted by Unregistered View Post
                    And you and the other players are still their because? RUSA has to be the lowest club in all of SJ. The tried to poach teams when they were FC Copa and I know MANY players who tried out at various age groups only to see that everyone made it so parents bolted then. They have been known to rip of coaches and looking at their younger teams have 0 in the way of development. Their is still time to get out as most clubs in the area are still having tryouts. And if you did miss them I'm sure most would welcome you to a session to tryout anyway.

                    If the rest of the team is looking to leave and want to stay together there is a relatively new club in EHT that doesn't have an 06 team I'm sure you could create. D doesn't play their but the owner is a good guy.
                    My daughter (and many others) have committed to other clubs but was loyal and had friends so wanted to finish out the year together. They thought this tournament would be a fun last chance after only get 7 games in the fall season. Then the coach decided because some of them are leaving to give the other team the tournament 3 days before it started. I guess shame on all of us for thinking ours daughters might actually be treated fairly. Scary thing is some girls on the second team are staying with club and they still weren’t invited to what was supposed to be their tournament.

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                      #11
                      Originally posted by Unregistered View Post
                      And you and the other players are still their because? RUSA has to be the lowest club in all of SJ. The tried to poach teams when they were FC Copa and I know MANY players who tried out at various age groups only to see that everyone made it so parents bolted then. They have been known to rip of coaches and looking at their younger teams have 0 in the way of development. Their is still time to get out as most clubs in the area are still having tryouts. And if you did miss them I'm sure most would welcome you to a session to tryout anyway.

                      If the rest of the team is looking to leave and want to stay together there is a relatively new club in EHT that doesn't have an 06 team I'm sure you could create. D doesn't play their but the owner is a good guy.
                      That’s what happens when you have daddy coaching your team and trying to be elite. Sorry, to break it to you but thats the majority of clubs in Atlantic County/SJ region, so it wouldn't be any better in EHT. All very low level in that part of SJ and behind the times. Go to a club with true development happening with past players successful in college. If you are going to spend the money, research the history of who they’ve developed and who haven’t they developed to higher levels of play. Many many clubs lie , my D learned the hard way and now at BOCA, but as a parents educate yourself, ask questions, and don’t believe everything you hear.

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                        #12
                        Stop with “developed” and “true development.” Big clubs don’t develop, they recruit. Nice buzzword though.



                        Originally posted by Unregistered View Post
                        That’s what happens when you have daddy coaching your team and trying to be elite. Sorry, to break it to you but thats the majority of clubs in Atlantic County/SJ region, so it wouldn't be any better in EHT. All very low level in that part of SJ and behind the times. Go to a club with true development happening with past players successful in college. If you are going to spend the money, research the history of who they’ve developed and who haven’t they developed to higher levels of play. Many many clubs lie , my D learned the hard way and now at BOCA, but as a parents educate yourself, ask questions, and don’t believe everything you hear.

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                          #13
                          Originally posted by Unregistered View Post
                          That’s what happens when you have daddy coaching your team and trying to be elite. Sorry, to break it to you but thats the majority of clubs in Atlantic County/SJ region, so it wouldn't be any better in EHT. All very low level in that part of SJ and behind the times. Go to a club with true development happening with past players successful in college. If you are going to spend the money, research the history of who they’ve developed and who haven’t they developed to higher levels of play. Many many clubs lie , my D learned the hard way and now at BOCA, but as a parents educate yourself, ask questions, and don’t believe everything you hear.
                          Correct, look at daddy coached Real FC....

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                            #14
                            Originally posted by Unregistered View Post
                            Stop with “developed” and “true development.” Big clubs don’t develop, they recruit. Nice buzzword though.
                            But they do... really they do. Find the right club and/or parent/trainer/coach and let your kid want it themselves and have fun. All big clubs don’t recruit unethically, sometimes parents just leave and they want more, so what club isn’t going to take a good player. I heard stories where bigger clubs harrass,text and stalk players and that’s not right either. The question is, will your kid be college ready at the end of whatever path they are on?...only time will tell.

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                              #15
                              Well said. Great lost. Eht is great club.



                              Originally posted by Unregistered View Post
                              But they do... really they do. Find the right club and/or parent/trainer/coach and let your kid want it themselves and have fun. All big clubs don’t recruit unethically, sometimes parents just leave and they want more, so what club isn’t going to take a good player. I heard stories where bigger clubs harrass,text and stalk players and that’s not right either. The question is, will your kid be college ready at the end of whatever path they are on?...only time will tell.

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