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**Unregistered** · 10-04-2019, 07:44 AM

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Yeah yeah yeah, happens all the time and not reserved to youth soccer. But can I get through just one season without another scandal revealing a coach or DOC secretly (they think) sleeping with a parent...usually a married one? This time, the hypocrisy is so blatant it's almost comical.

I don't expect these guys to be saints, but does it have to be all the freaking time!? Is it a job requirement or something? They see how it rips teams apart and destroys trust in the club, but they do it anyway thinking they won't get caught. They always get caught, and it always ends in drama one way or another dragging in innocent people who don't deserve it. Dumb*****es!

Most soccer guys are losers so they use kids and vulnerable moms as easy pray. they couldn't get pu**y any other way. Think about it, soccer players and coaches are probably amongst to most ignorant, so apart from using kids in a scheme plot, what other inteligent or engaging conversation or experience could they provide?

**Unregistered** · 10-04-2019, 08:00 AM

Originally posted by Unregistered View Post

Most soccer guys are losers so they use kids and vulnerable moms as easy pray. they couldn't get pu**y any other way. Think about it, soccer players and coaches are probably amongst to most ignorant, so apart from using kids in a scheme plot, what other inteligent or engaging conversation or experience could they provide?

Rule #1- Soccer coaches and soccer parents should never converse because they can never be friends.

**Unregistered** · 10-04-2019, 08:22 AM

Originally posted by Unregistered View Post

Yeah yeah yeah, happens all the time and not reserved to youth soccer. But can I get through just one season without another scandal revealing a coach or DOC secretly (they think) sleeping with a parent...usually a married one? This time, the hypocrisy is so blatant it's almost comical.

I don't expect these guys to be saints, but does it have to be all the freaking time!? Is it a job requirement or something? They see how it rips teams apart and destroys trust in the club, but they do it anyway thinking they won't get caught. They always get caught, and it always ends in drama one way or another dragging in innocent people who don't deserve it. Dumb*****es!

Is it real or a rumor spread by an angry parent. I don�t believe this happens all that much, the rumor mill is the biggest problem. Because once it�s out there it�s out there even if it�s false

**Unregistered** · 10-04-2019, 08:23 AM

Originally posted by Unregistered View Post

Rule #1- Soccer coaches and soccer parents should never converse because they can never be friends.

Probably a good rule to have. I certainly haven't encountered a coach I'd want to be buddies with...or sleep with. Standards you know.

**Unregistered** · 10-04-2019, 08:31 AM

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Is it real or a rumor spread by an angry parent. I don�t believe this happens all that much, the rumor mill is the biggest problem. Because once it�s out there it�s out there even if it�s false

I know what you mean, and yes vicious rumor mills are definitely a huge problem. But this one is real. Confessions spilling out and aggrieved parties dragging other people into it.

Despite the volume of specious rumors, I wouldn't be at all surprised if it happens even more often than gets revealed. Over the years, I've had stories confessed to me that never made it to the rumor mill. Maybe I'm wrong, but it's started to feel epidemic to me.

**Unregistered** · 10-04-2019, 08:59 AM

Originally posted by Unregistered View Post

I know what you mean, and yes vicious rumor mills are definitely a huge problem. But this one is real. Confessions spilling out and aggrieved parties dragging other people into it.

Despite the volume of specious rumors, I wouldn't be at all surprised if it happens even more often than gets revealed. Over the years, I've had stories confessed to me that never made it to the rumor mill. Maybe I'm wrong, but it's started to feel epidemic to me.

Oh please. Consenting adults can do whatever they want. Not your problem. Mind your own business.

**Unregistered** · 10-04-2019, 09:05 AM

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Oh please. Consenting adults can do whatever they want. Not your problem. Mind your own business.

Oh please yourself. I don't care what they do until it impacts my kid's soccer experience. And don't pretend this type of BS doesn't cause trust issues and rip teams apart and affect the team's performance. It certainly does and it's totally avoidable. If they can't keep it in their pants or take it outside the club to get their rocks off, they shouldn't be coaching a team.

**Unregistered** · 10-04-2019, 09:08 AM

What club? Which Coach?

**Unregistered** · 10-04-2019, 09:09 AM

Now this is the way to keep up the ratings on TS.

**Unregistered** · 10-04-2019, 09:19 AM

Originally posted by Unregistered View Post

Oh please. Consenting adults can do whatever they want. Not your problem. Mind your own business.

It's an easily avoidable conflict of interest. Any club that doesn't have a written policy against it, should.

**Unregistered** · 10-04-2019, 09:21 AM

Originally posted by Unregistered View Post

Oh please yourself. I don't care what they do until it impacts my kid's soccer experience. And don't pretend this type of BS doesn't cause trust issues and rip teams apart and affect the team's performance. It certainly does and it's totally avoidable. If they can't keep it in their pants or take it outside the club to get their rocks off, they shouldn't be coaching a team.

Boohoo. The only one making it an issue for your kid is you. Don't like it, move on. Whom an adult decides to shag has no bearing whatsoever on their ability to coach a youth sport.

Trust issues? Because two adults decided to get it on? Holy crap. When did we become a society of Puritans? Should the coach wear a big letter A?

Fvcking nosy people worrying about everyone else but themselves.

**Unregistered** · 10-04-2019, 09:23 AM

Originally posted by Unregistered View Post

It's an easily avoidable conflict of interest. Any club that doesn't have a written policy against it, should.

Consenting adults doing the nasty is not a conflict of interest.

**Unregistered** · 10-04-2019, 09:53 AM

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Consenting adults doing the nasty is not a conflict of interest.

It's not about consenting adults doing the nasty. It's about the secrecy. If there is no problem with the relationship, why lie about it? Because they know people finding out would be a problem. That's kind of a no brainer there. So it is a conflict of interest and a problem:

when other parents find out and start complaining the coach is favoring the kid of the parent he's f****ing.

when the coach is no longer able to maintain team discipline because everyone knows and loses trust.

when teammates find out and start treating the kid differently.

Yeah, it's a conflict of interest and responsible organizations have policies that require disclosing such relationships before they become an issue.

Feel free not to believe me, but I've seen this happen too many times and it gets ugly and definitely impacts the team's performance and their development. Call me a prude all you want. I don't care if the coach has an affair with his accountant's wife. I do care when they whip their willie out with someone on the team, keep it a secret, and it comes out anyway and creates drama. It's stupid and can make for a miserable year for everyone on the team.

**Unregistered** · 10-04-2019, 10:03 AM

Originally posted by Unregistered View Post

It's not about consenting adults doing the nasty. It's about the secrecy. If there is no problem with the relationship, why lie about it? Because they know people finding out would be a problem. That's kind of a no brainer there. So it is a conflict of interest and a problem:

when other parents find out and start complaining the coach is favoring the kid of the parent he's f****ing.

when the coach is no longer able to maintain team discipline because everyone knows and loses trust.

when teammates find out and start treating the kid differently.

Yeah, it's a conflict of interest and responsible organizations have policies that require disclosing such relationships before they become an issue.

Feel free not to believe me, but I've seen this happen too many times and it gets ugly and definitely impacts the team's performance and their development. Call me a prude all you want. I don't care if the coach has an affair with his accountant's wife. I do care when they whip their willie out with someone on the team, keep it a secret, and it comes out anyway and creates drama. It's stupid and can make for a miserable year for everyone on the team.

Years ago I was shagging a mom on every team trip we took. Our team was top of the table, girls got along great. It got awkward for a bit cause the rumor was out there but the coach was happy getting some off the field and that probably spilled over into the team on the field which helped our success. Don�t turn it into a drama and it won�t affect your little Susie.