Just wondering. I wonder why people can't actually discuss things in a civil manner. There is so much negativity from everywhere. Pretty sad.
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Anger management issuesComment
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It is easier to treat people like crap when they are not in front of you. It sucks, but the true mentality of some of these people comes out, and they take this way too seriously!!!Comment
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Because the people who come on here to bully others and call people names do it because they can hide behind their keyboards and not get their a $ $ kicked face to face. They no have cajones to speak face to face. They can let their evilness come out and then put on their mask at the fields to make people believe they are good people. I never seen such a think in my country.Originally posted by Unregistered View PostComment
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why people are so mean on here
Because it makes little men feel like big men behind a key board when they cannot succeed in other areas of their livesComment
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There is some positive here on this thread but no one pays attention to them. It's the negativity that entice people and the threads continue because people want to prove other people wrong or have the last word. If the positive on these threads are embraced more the negativity won't disappear but it will be flooded with people speaking on good things rather then bashing everything. People have the right to disagree but do it with accord do it with class do it respectfully.Comment
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What I don't understand is all the bashing of the other teams. For the most part the discussions are of 12 to 15 yr olds, most of which will probably have to do something else with their life after 18. But everyone is so caught up with what team is better and what not. Now I can understand as a training perspective and money, but to go out and say this team sucks and that team sucks and they always will is uncalled for in my opinion. Would be better to just have a positive influence on the kids, teach them to win but to also be humble at the same time because they may not always be on the " winning" team in life.Comment
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For those of us who think this way, let's try to hold respectful debates and conversations. May, just maybe, we can overshadow the negativity. Not holding my breath, but you can never succeed if you don't try. i would challenge each person here to go on a thread and do this from now on.Originally posted by Unregistered View PostComment
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Because the real competitive sport here is parenting. That's why everything is your kid sucks. What your kid is doing sucks. My kid is the greatest because I spend $20,000 a year just on his shoe tying trainer, and if my kid is the greatest, I am the greatest parent ever and my life is validated.Originally posted by Unregistered View Post
Then you get the for profit DOCs, tournaments, and leagues dropping in to stir things up as a form of astroturfing their competitors.Comment
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BINGO...Exactly...spot on....most accurate post ever.Originally posted by Unregistered View PostComment
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Easiest way to put it is that people are jealous?????Comment
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To many fysa clubs have teams if not entire club controled and manipulated by a few parents. This is why academy has taken over most of the nation and making inroads here. Top players have been chased off teams and out of soccer. Competitive does not apply and you are spending your money so that small group can run the team like their private county club.Comment
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Why is everyone so negative on here all the time?
Well stated! Everywhere you go there are daddy coaches with one or more daddy (mommy) as team manager. DOC are daddys and surround themselves with other daddys who then control the team and the club. We come here to vent our frustrations over a corrupt environment that is all about money and showcasing a few select players whose daddys run everything. Want to see real "negative"? Try visiting a pub in Ireland sometime.Originally posted by Unregistered View PostComment
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