I know lots of talk about top players etc here. But I have a mid level player. Midlevel as in middle of DPL middle school team roster. I see DPL and impact as mid level. ECNL regional at this age group also mid level. None of our players will be D1 but many of these players want to play soccer past high school into college. My daughter works hard, lacks speed and confidence yet has a good first touch and makes good decisions. Definitely the late bloomer as the other middle school girls are taller and gone through puberty. What’s your advice to the parents of this type of player willing to work hard but might not ever be on the top team. Is one club, one league, pathway a better investment of time. Will some clubs focus in on these players helping them reach full potential? We know that they aren’t recruited being on NPL or ECNL R, or Impact teams. We know we will setup those ID camps and try to learn how to target wisely. Just wondering what advice is out there since I think there’s a lot of this type of player.
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Invest more in your 529. I'm not being flippant but you admitted she's not fast or confident. Making it through HS and into the college ranks requires that plus the skills, even for lower level teams. Yes you might find a coach/team that improves her confidence, some. She might work with a personal trainer that improves her speed, some. Mid level players can get recruited but the odds are far lower. There's more youth players at her level vs ECNL and GA combined.
Perhaps the two of you sitting down and looking at the rosters of lower level teams will show her the odds (many will list their youth clubs). Don't just look at who is one the roster but who plays the most. Have her attend a local multi school ID event to see if she can keep up/compete against others. Or at a low level program that might be a fit but isn't one she's interested in. Maybe she'll do better than expected? She won't know without at least trying. But try to keep expectations in check.
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Focus on the coach and the environment. Lack of confidence can come from bad environment. At this age coaches, who remember have zero training how to deal with teenage girls and the emotions of this age., aren’t the right fit. Watch specifically the coach at a game and practice. How do they address issues, hold kids accountable. Lack of confidence can come from being with a coach that doesn’t provide a place for kids to make mistakes and learn from them. Which is essential. Do they get pulled the second they make a mistake for example so then the kid starts to take no risks or it restricts their decision making. If you can find a coach that has worked with teens for a long time or even raised teens you will see a difference. This age people stick with coaches too long what worked to motivated and correct a 10 year old doesn’t work with a 13 year old. And remember coaches are financially incented to keep a team together more than develop players. Clubs that switch coaches up every 2-3 years for a team are more ideal because players and coaches have to earn their new relationship and it holds everyone a bit more accountable to development. Any league can result in playing in college if the kid truly wants it.
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Choose a college for academics and then see if they have club or campus Rec leagues. Based on your current description, college soccer is not in the cards. Just continue to find joy in the game wherever she finds it.
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Originally posted by Guest View PostI know lots of talk about top players etc here. But I have a mid level player. Midlevel as in middle of DPL middle school team roster. I see DPL and impact as mid level. ECNL regional at this age group also mid level. None of our players will be D1 but many of these players want to play soccer past high school into college. My daughter works hard, lacks speed and confidence yet has a good first touch and makes good decisions. Definitely the late bloomer as the other middle school girls are taller and gone through puberty. What’s your advice to the parents of this type of player willing to work hard but might not ever be on the top team. Is one club, one league, pathway a better investment of time. Will some clubs focus in on these players helping them reach full potential? We know that they aren’t recruited being on NPL or ECNL R, or Impact teams. We know we will setup those ID camps and try to learn how to target wisely. Just wondering what advice is out there since I think there’s a lot of this type of player.
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It wasnt worded great but I read it as given the significant time spent, regardless of whether its ECNLR, NPL, DPL, is there any one team/league from these that has proven it can get a mid level player some exposure?
IMO, good grades and attending ID camps should work well, but cast a wide net.
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Originally posted by Guest View PostChoose a college for academics and then see if they have club or campus Rec leagues. Based on your current description, college soccer is not in the cards. Just continue to find joy in the game wherever she finds it.
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Originally posted by Guest View PostIt wasnt worded great but I read it as given the significant time spent, regardless of whether its ECNLR, NPL, DPL, is there any one team/league from these that has proven it can get a mid level player some exposure?
IMO, good grades and attending ID camps should work well, but cast a wide net.
Top player - Will receive multiple 80%> athletic offers from the top 20 soccer schools A tiny percentage
Mid Level - The majority of players
The rest - A tiny percentage.
if you make the assumption that CLub soccer spending reflects the ROI in access/money from College (bad assumption imo), then OP should figure out what the best version his daughter could realistically attain is "worth" is it 20%? A tip? If you figure out what than is worth, then OP should only spend a max of that amount. If you look at it like that, you quickly realize that the ROI is not what supports the cost. It like any Club, FOMO premium is huge.
Parents should start by deciding what their kids want from the sport and then chart course appropriately.
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So a typical college roster, of 30+ players and 14 scholarships available, how many "Top players" are on a roster? Two? Three? 10? 16?
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Thats my point. You are looking at it differently. If there are 20 top programs, how many kids per year do you think are getting >80% offers from more than one? Hold that number and then accept that there are 300+ D1 schools and a good percentage are fully funded. There is significant money available for players who are not top players. There is more $$ out there than there are top players.
But, thruthfully, I have no idea. My kid got substantial, not 80%, and not what I would call a top player so I guess your definition fits...
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I guess I understand it, but wouldn't have termed "top" so limiting.
But, thruthfully, I have no idea. My kid got substantial, not 80%, and not what I would call a top player so I guess your definition fits...
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Thats my point. You are looking at it differently. If there are 20 top programs, how many kids per year do you think are getting >80% offers from more than one? Hold that number and then accept that there are 300+ D1 schools and a good percentage are fully funded. There is significant money available for players who are not top players. There is more $$ out there than there are top players.
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Thread op's player is not even a D1 level player so drop that part of the discussion
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Are you saying there are no players like her in D1 soccer? What is a D1 level player when some are getting full rides to Duke and others are sitting on the bench at ABC State with no $$. Thats why defining level, by club, etc makes no sense. you have kids on the same team with a wide gaps in talent.
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