I am of the school that emotional development is no different than physical and academic development. Resistance training is necessary to build emotional strength and resilience.
Many of today's mental health issues just may be due to a lack of resistance training and emotional development. There is always a line when pushing oneself (or others) too far causes injury, but simply making someone feel uncomfortable does not constitute abuse.
OP primary complaint is that his D lost playing time and coach has refused to communicate. Not clear, did she communicate her injury? I inferred that she tried to play through it.
Secondary complaint is that coach admonished player for her play in front of the team. This is a u17 college-committed player.
I empathize with their situation. I suspect we have all struggled with the decision to stay quiet and play through it or disclose it and risk immediate PT hit.
I also know that the "verbally committed" period is an anxious one. Player appears to be experiencing a pretty normal range of emotions associated with staying healthy and keeping starting spot on an elite team. Players indeed lose confidence during these moments. Some parents choose to be supportive and help them grow through it, others point fingers at the coach.
Many of today's mental health issues just may be due to a lack of resistance training and emotional development. There is always a line when pushing oneself (or others) too far causes injury, but simply making someone feel uncomfortable does not constitute abuse.
OP primary complaint is that his D lost playing time and coach has refused to communicate. Not clear, did she communicate her injury? I inferred that she tried to play through it.
Secondary complaint is that coach admonished player for her play in front of the team. This is a u17 college-committed player.
I empathize with their situation. I suspect we have all struggled with the decision to stay quiet and play through it or disclose it and risk immediate PT hit.
I also know that the "verbally committed" period is an anxious one. Player appears to be experiencing a pretty normal range of emotions associated with staying healthy and keeping starting spot on an elite team. Players indeed lose confidence during these moments. Some parents choose to be supportive and help them grow through it, others point fingers at the coach.
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